My mother I am happy cleaned herself up from drugs a couple/few years ago and is doing well at her new job she got a few months ago. But when she got the job she lost her health insurance. now she tells me she had to stop taking her blood pressure medication and other meds too and that her doc wrote her a letter to tell her her bloodwork from before this her kidney function was low and she needs more tests, but, she can’t get them.
I offered to buy the blood pressure pills only but she refused my offer. I am worried sick something is going to happen.
Also my best friend with his high blood pressure. He is taking twice what he is prescribed but i can’t do anything about it he is not mentally ill I guess.
Some twelve step program saying “detach with love” does not seem to be the answer this time.