Do you think they look good or is too much muscle gross? I’m asking because I want to start working out. What’s your opinion?
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if you’re doing it for the ladies…I’m sure there are plenty of women who love a pumped up dude…I would be careful of overdoing it though…you don’t want to be a cartoon.
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LOL! That’s why I was asking lol
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All I know is at 160 lbs and 6ft i got no women but at 180 or 190 lean i had luck
women are attracted to body mass
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bodies shouldn’t really matter…I am proud I look good, lost all my extra weight, but you can have a woman right now…just be yourself.
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I don’t think it’s necessarily about the muscle you gain. I think women are more attracted to definition than sheer mass. It’s more evolutionary I think. That is it’s about exhibiting your mental determination in working hard and self control over your diet than anything else. The mental things you gain from working out that’s most attractive. If someone was 400 pounds of lean muscle but was a total wimp and had no masculine energy about him that women would really be all that attracted? Maybe at first glance. But it’s more about the mental benefits and virtue a you get from doing hard work which is the responsibility of every man.
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I agree @ThePoet .
The energy and aura of a man is more relevant and important I reckon.
Also how he treats you…
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That said a muscly bod on a man can be soooooo hot.
I had a body builder boyfriend once who was huge I mean he was as big as the rock .
He was stunning.
He did steroids though.
I had another boyfriend who was a kickboxer with a six pack.
Soooooo hot n gorgeous.
He was not on steroids but was natural.
Steroids can make a man have mood swings and etc
Also I think it can make them cold and lacking of empathy/compassion and affection.
I had some men with hot bods when I was younger.
Nowadays it’s mostly fat or chubby men With beards.
I only have one boyfriend I only get jiggi with him.
He is chubby but not obese.
I had one man in Sweden omg he was stunning perfection.
He wanted to marry me but I was tortured by voices and “my mother” said I can’t be with him n he is so bad .i said no.she said he only wanted a visa to stay in Sweden n only using me.
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Women like broad shoulders and a square jaw on a man. Fortunately, I have both! 
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Women like a square peg and I am a round one.
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love them but not too muscular though just enough muscle but not too much then you look like a cartoon or popeye.
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I don’t like too much muscle
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I like men’s physiques that are natural muscle, with definition and vascularity. I also like women who have some muscularity but not freakish like with steroids. I like when i have more muscle, too, but my history of obesity makes definition impossible from all the loose skin.
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I used to not want a man who was too muscular or strong because in my mind it meant I wouldn’t be able to protect myself from him.
Now I’m married to a body builder who treats me better than any other man ever did.
My husband is extremely attractive. He’s also extremely large and muscular.
But less muscular men can be attractive too.
What matters most, and what’s most attractive, is a good man. A man with a heart of gold.
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Well said @CoCo .
A man witha heart of gold.
Blessed be such men!
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I think there’s a myth that dad bods are in…
that’s a lie
Women defo prefer muscular guys. The bigger and more v tapered, the more attractive.
I don’t think a guy has to be under 10 percent body fat either
Just slim and muscular.
I’m fat and muscular, and women still check me out on the street. I wish someone would approach me and ask for my number lol.
I can’t wait to get lean. Have like 25kg to lose.
Big & strong, or lean and strong is the preferred phenotype from an evolutionary perspective as men with protective traits are highly desired.
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I don’t think I’ve ever been drawn to “ripped” men… or whatever you wanna call it…
Muscle is fine, but there’s a point that it gets weird to me lol.
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