I’m sorry guys I have to post this … why are people Soo mean and nasty sometimes. It’s like people do y even see what they are doing as wrong and counter productive. Sometimes I don’t like being human…
Bro I think either some words are missing in the above statement.
Could you explain?
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I think it’s easy and quite normal 4veveryone 2 b mean sometimes. Takes a lot to always be kind. Idk?
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I guess I’m just venting… Sometimes I forget that people can be mean and cruel and I just have to try to be ok with the reality of that.
I often get confused when people are mean and nasty for reasons that don’t make sense to me but I forget that everyone sees things differently and behaves different
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Yea there’s that saying. Be kind for u don’t know how hard someone’s battle is.
It’s not easy to do all the time!!! 
But yea maybe it’s the ideal.
Yea… I agree Zoe. Sometimes tho it feels like the degree of meanness isn’t reasonable. Maybe I just feel that way because i always perceived it as directed towards me but it feels like alot to just explain away with normal dynamics in behavior…
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I have a German friend and she’s lovely but just her accent and mannerisms make her sound direct and rude, Germans are direct anyway. When you get to know her she’s lovely. I take interactions with people with a pinch of salt, meeting somebody for 5 minutes doesn’t define them.
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Yea some ppl are so rude I can’t help but think,
What a prick.
But anyway, at the end of the day, idk…
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Ppl have different circumstances and genetics. They try their best even if they seem like a dickhead.
Its not the full story.
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Yea that’s true.
I guess being the target of the abuse it seems like they are bad people and the cruelty is gross and enormous but if you spread the cruelty out then it’s like it’s not even a big deal lol we can destroy a person without mercy and sleep at night because we as individuals contributed Soo little it’s like it’s not even real …and why would it be …he’s not even a real person 
jk but I do actually feel like this about my situation…I’m done talking about it tho .need to get back to work
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We’ve all had bad days, when my social anxiety plays up I’m not approachable at all.
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But someone being purposely horrible and nasty to you is unacceptable.
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In spirituality I’ve heard the term low vibration and high vibration energy.
low vibration energy: Toxic, want others to fail, jealous, anger, hate
high vibration energy: Happy, gratitude, content, want to help, connection etc etc.
When you meet an ■■■■■■■, they are really suffering in my view.
The most extreme case of being in a “low vibration state” are mass shooters, they have so much hate that they want to drag everyone down.
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Yea… I think those people are suffering alot. To be honest I’ve been to that level of suffering and hate…and I realized you don’t get there by yourself.
Feel like some people are just societies punching bags. When those people get angry they just shoot and kill them
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Yeah I’ve been there myself. Sometimes we get righteous anger though, anger that is justified, and that is not bad in my view. If you’ve been treated unfairly, then you have the right to be angry.
I get angry and swear to the “universe” a lot of times in bad times, or I say F you god, at least I’m just shouting to an imaginary thing and not people, lol.
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That’s how I feel. This world is terrible for us who are nice. Some people love to bully or say stupid shi-t about others just so they can feel better about themselves. I try to not care but a lifetime of bullying has made it hard. As soon as I relax and put my guard down some fu-ck is there to stick it to me.
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I’m sorry guys I was just upset. Alot of people are nice and some are even nice to me . I was just in a bad mood …
When I feel mistreated I become really negative and agitated…
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Sorry you feel like that. You deserve better treatment.
At least u got us guys here we appreciate you.
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Same man. …
I really dislike when I’m in negative moods.
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Thanks Zoe 
Enough Christmas 
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