When im not feeling well and i complain a little? My Mom yells at me when Im sick or something is wrong with me and gets mad when i complain and at the hospital i got yelled at for complaining about not being able to eat or sleep and was completely miserable. Usually when someone is not feeling well I sympathize with them and try to make them feel better or at least listen but whenever Im doing bad I get treated like sh!t.
Im interested in everyones thoughts on this?
Yea Iām in a similar situation. I lead a reclusive life and my mom keeps insulting and yelling at me to change my life. She has schizophrenia herself but does not understand negative symptoms is whatās keeping me like this.
I like communication. I like arguing. I yell at my parents sometimes. I sympathize with people who are complaining. I personally donāt believe life should be hard. When someone of my loved ones is complaining I have compassion and sympathy for them. I like to reason and find out what the complaining is coming from. What is causing the complaining. Is it like injustice or really bad feelings. A physical symptom or something. Basically like I said before I dont believe life should be hard or suffering. That is why I take complaining as communication.
Itās sympathy or empathy. My dad grew up poor and worked his whole life. Heās not really that nice to people, me includedā¦
He moved away and is retired. I still care and love him obviously. Schizophrenia is a hard illness to accept, deal with. He probably views me as a failure.
Currently, I am on disability and live with my step-father and mother. My step-father regrets treating me like crap over the years and has been really nice and kind to me and stepped in as the current father figure.
Iām a grown man now. Iām 35. I got sick when I was 22-23 years old.
My dad doesnāt get or understand schizophrenia.
My father never really supported me in a lot of ways especially emotionally. Heās very responsible, but lacked a lot of things when he was raising me.
I guess I experienced splitting. My mom was overly concerned and compassionate, but didnāt work. My step-father was emotionally distant or unavailable. My dad was hard on me, but Iāve accepted it. I donāt think it was that bad compared to some peopleās stories.
I guess it comes down to personal responsibility and being independent. I was told not to ask or beg for money or help.
My mom never really was proactive growing up and never did me any favors. Sheās co-dependent.
Iām not sure why I even have schizophrenia, but itās largely genetic, Iāve read. I got it from pot and never fully recovered. I think my schizophrenia is moderate. Iāve read that some people with schizophrenia think theyāre a glass of orange juice or a dog or wipe feces on their faces. Iām definitely not that bad at all.
I didnāt have the religious gene growing up. I never understood it or believed it and was drawn to academics briefly. I never graduated and it was math so it didnāt really have a direct application to my interestsā¦
I was raised on WoW and video games. I had social problems growing up. I didnāt have a lot of friends, and was isolated. I struggled fitting in my whole life. I never had a relationship (girlfriend) and was even bullied as a kid.
By patients or staff?
It was by staff
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In my situation, I feel like the people who donāt like complaining, are mostly the ones causing problems you complain about.
In the United States this time of year, there is a widely-known concept called āholiday stress.ā I mentally chalk up much of people being ticked off around this time to something like that.
Maybe so-called ācomplainingā might react with such stress in some way.
Sometimes the people who donāt like complaining are the ones who complain a lot. True story.
I think people should sympathize with you @Rainstorm.
I think people just want to be heard, but they do not know what the problem is just yet.
So they create one. Problem solved by proxy.
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