Tonight at the poetry event I sat next to this girl in my class and we were really bonding and whatnot then she was like “Oh and my boyfriend ___________”. Seems no girl is single? Where my single ladies at? Isn’t that a beyonce song?
Then this other girl in my class went up to me and asked me for my contact information after she heard my poem because she liked it and said she wanted advice on her own poems. But she probably has a boyfriend too!!!
@chew your singles are probably at OKcupid. if you want a partner, you might have to look in the right places. if you look in the wrong places, you’ll just probably embarrass yourself and get angry. been there. done that.
To continue with the topic: just keep getting out more and keep looking. You are pretty exceptional individual and accept that it will take you more time to find your matching soul.
awww thanks sarad. When I was 5 I used to dig holes in my backyard. My mom always said Id make it to china at how much I dug. Now I’m on the west coast if I dug a hole through the center of the earth maybe id end up in Croatia or Portugal and meet you or @minnii
haha its funny. I dig all through the center of the earth. survive the heat of molten lava and whatnot, then minnii isn’t willing to walk more than a couple blocks to meet me because she doesn’t like walking far!
I get that too plus I seem to remind people of a kid sister, nince etc or I get the weirdos!
The ones that want to know or date me coz I am “shy deaf girl” or some other stupid bs doublet worse the ones want to “help fix me” to them I point out my dad a marine and well that stops that!
@chew it’s college. The girls that have boyfriends will likely not have boyfriends in the future. That’s where you come in on the rebound. They want your info so you can be there just in case. This is how girls play the game, just go with it.
Keep in mind the tables turn once people reach late 30’s to early 40’s. Women are typically the ones that end up single and alone while it’s much easier for men to find a mate at that age and beyond. Women in their early 20’s will have a lot of suitors though so it can be difficult. If you really want a gf, then perhaps consider going for someone who isn’t “traditionally beautiful” but is smart and has a cool personality.