All my life I’ve been looking for the perfect person and they never appeared.
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the perfect person is always near you 
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money talks brings bigger options brings many of holidays to every country in the world and if you choose your soul mate might appear
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I don’t think there is such a thing as a perfect person.
But to asnwer your question, I think I’m single because I refuse to NOT be single just to be with someone. I’m waiting for someone I actually like and who likes me too.
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I looked for universal partnership and love all my life only to realize that real.love is only in one night stands …because they happen promptly andsuddenly and you dont have the time to get to know the person which is a good thing. Cause knowing the person makes all love go away. But if its a stranger its greatest experiece with real love and appreciation. Am i wrong?
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I don’t think it’s possible to experience love for someone you’ve just met.
Are you sure the feeling you’re describing isn’t lust?
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cos I don’t know anyone. if you don’t know people how would you find a match?
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i havent been going out enough to the right places but i want to change that, i have been getting more and more confident though and i am going out to a bar with a couple of friends tonight 
hopefully i can meet someone, the last time i was there the barmaid was flirting with me
i think its a confidence thing, you need to try and impress and it can be hard but if you can make someone laugh then your half way there i guess x
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I don’t know. Maybe I’m not that attractive or I have high standards? I do online dating, but I never message anyone. I just am lazy lol.
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i think it might be too many pizzas and kebabs 
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This is why I stay in a relationship. Other than loving each other. I don’t look for anyone - better.
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I am single because:
I am working on myself and my condition first because it deserves priority over dating
I am not ready to date the type of woman I want and deserve yet, I rate women on a scale of 1-30 as I rate myself on a scale of 1-30. If you want a 25, you must become a solid 25, want a 15, become the 15 etc.
I am single because God decides when I will meet the woman that will love me inside and outside for who I am, and that time has not come yet.
I am single because I have no financial stability right now and cannot even afford to take a date out to a restaurant to even be an adult.
It is all about developing yourself first and getting yourself where you want to be first and foremost. At that point when you reach your goals of self development, then i believe, God will bring he or she into your life and he or she will get to experience the fully developed, mentally well, stable personality, YOU, the you that you can be and need to be in order to handle a true, stable, mentally well off, healthy relationship that benefits you and your girlfriend or boyfriend.
So do not sweat being single, it means you are not ready yet. Hope this helps! Good luck!
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Im socially retarded, I get really nervy around girls. That makes me a bad candidate for relationships. I also have alogia which makes me an incompetent conversationalist. I talk half as much as I would like to. Even on here.
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I also think I’m single because I’m insecure. It’s not that I haven’t had people be interested in me, it’s more that when people do like me, I instantly start thinking to myself that they’re kidding themselves.
Y’know, that they only like me because they’re lonely and I’m nice to them, or they have a fetish for curvy girls, or they think they like me but they’re really just lusting, etc.
Like, I always find ways to sabotage it for myself.
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I will not marry or shave my beard until Tibet is free.
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I’m single because I don’t care.
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I’m single because…i am a complicated mess. Like dating me includes rubbing off one layer after another. Plus I come in package. 
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It doesn’t exist. “Perfectness” of the person is what you discover through the relationship, by adjusting and adapting to her and to each other.
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Yes and also i think meeting someone has to do with faith…beliveing certainly that you will meet someone. I for example am sure i will meet someone. Im an old woman 35 …i have no reason to think i will meet someone…i dont have curves or anything…but yet i have faith…its very important.
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I think there’s a lot of luck involved and you want to find someone you can respect (which covers a lot of bases) and they respect you. Contempt is the single greatest reason why relationships end.
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