Hey guys, as above thoughts?
Me !
Single bcz of sz. Gf left me bcz I couldnāt work anymore due to sz. Not looking for a relationship unless I am able to work.
I gave up on online dating this year. Even if I meet someone online I cant meet them IRL with covid so whats the point. I may come back to it later but its tough when you donāt work. The most common thing people ask is āwhat do you doā. Shortly followed by āwhere are you livingā. And both my answers to those questions just arenāt desirable.
My attitude has shifted toward accepting that Iām perennially single and probably will be going forward.
I have noticed phases, but this time, I think my body is slowing down too, or more to the point - I have less desires, or simply just urgesā¦
I still wonder if Iāll blush in front of a woman while sheās far younger than I, like when Iām in my 60sā¦ But I think Iām safe from those occurrencesā¦ I just remember them!
Fears of FEELING like a ādirty old manā are what Iām talking about! Lololol.
Me too. Im 52 and havenāt been in the romantic mood for several years.
im single, happily single, but havent ruled out a relationship. i have a thing for miranda, a women from my hometown, at the moment, but i havenāt seen her in a year. last time we spoke, she was also single, but i didnāt hit on her. she gave me a hug and it was cordial. im not the most desirable choice though, having to live in subsidized housing in the future, and not willing to work more than 10 or 15 hours a week. kids are out of the picture for me, so that is another thing working against me. i donāt want to and have never tried online dating, i prefer meeting people in real life, but i no longer go to parties or bars, so i rarely socialize. and the thought of hitting on a women at church, just seems like would send me straight to hell. although iāve had people like my caseworker tell me, church is a good place to meet someone.
iāll probably hit it off with someone when im in an old folks home haha.
me tooā¦ iām single and i donāt want a relationship.
My ex was so terrible to me Iām not sure I want to go through all that again with someone else I think Iāll just stick with family
Iām divorced (single) and Iām not looking for a relationship.
Been single for a long time, had a online gf for many years, other than that I have made no efforts to date
Iām divorced and single and Iām not looking for a relationship.
I have been divorced for over twenty years. I was not looking for a relationship, but it found me. She had been divorced for about twenty years too. Iām 66 she is older. It is never to late.
Single and not looking.
Divorced and will never be in a relationship again. No desire in the slightest.
Both yes and no. I want to be in a relationship, but Iām struggling to find stability to be up for it. Have to be able to manage my own life before I invite someone else into it I feel.
I am single. Do look at dating sites occasionally, but I am happy single, and can afford to live at the moment
All is good here.
Not sure Iād find someone willing to put up with me to be fair!
Have been single for so long, I probably have some habits from living alone for nearly 5 years.
Same here I have never been in a relationship. And I dont think Iāll ever be in one either because Iām just not desirable. Especially now that I have my mental illness
Iām single by choice. Iāve had suitors, but I donāt want to do the whole āIām lonely and youāre lonely, letās be less lonely togetherā thing because it only turns toxic.
I donāt really have room in my life for a partner anyways.