My mum really scares me I think I’m terrified of turning into her that’s why since I resemble her.
Looks wise.
And her dissociation is awfully scary, like mine
Living with my dad is chilled. But I just feel so pressured to leave I don’t want him to have to work so hard job wise cos of me :((
He is 71 for gdness sake makes me feel awful I need to show my appreciation more to him and with my mum it’s difficult to show it thou cos she’ll find stuff to complain about
I live at home with my mom-- glad I was accepted to live there with open arms. It’s fine for the most part. She sometimes nags me about certain things, but that’s kinda what parents do
We hang out some, and she’s usually at home in time for dinner, which is nice.
I pay for my some of my groceries and things I need with the money I make at the yoga studio to offset some of the cost of me living at home.
She (and I, too) wants me to be independent someday, but she’s willing to accommodate me for as long as I need, so I’m really lucky.
Wow yea @anon90843118-- can imagine that rent in London is sky-high right now.
It’s great that you contribute to rent and your food if you’re able to-- if it takes the load off the parentals, which is a good thing for sure.
Sorry your mom can be a bit of a trigger for you. I hope things change for the positive between you guys. My mom and I didn’t always get along-- we used to fight a lot. But I think she understands that I’m going through ■■■■ at times with the illness, and also I’ve matured a little bit, so the situation has mellowed out.
It’s actually nice sometimes-- something I thought I’d never say back in high school
I live with my mom and dad. It’s really nice, I help pay for groceries and bills with my SSDI (not that they need my help, but I wanna contribute somehow). Without them, I’d be homeless. So I try to comply with the few rules they have, lol.