I own a third share of a property with my mum and bro. I didn’t earn any of it my dad just put it in my name. Anyway , my brother wanted to move in with his girlfriend so he asked my mum to ask me if id swap with him. He lived at mums. He wanted to move in there with his girlfriend for 3 months until he sorts out a place. They lived there for way longer and it broke off. And I still don’t have my room back. I’m angry but you know what? We will have our own place in less than two years and tne wait will be worth it.
I don’t know why I feel this upset about it all today. I guess I’m just fed up of living here on this same road for the past 36 years. I need to fly. I say 36 years because my house that I share is On the same street.
Either I’m very paranoid here or I’m just not having a good day.
Sorry you not having a good day
That makes two of us
Yes I was fine until this evening to be honest. Then I started feelimg down about things.
Was it something someone said to you previously @anon25873142?
No. I just had an argument with my mum about how she convinved me to come live with her so my bro can stay with his girlfriend for a few months. She claims that wasn’t even the conversation but it was. I feel she treats us different. And I might be paranoid.
It was some tough love but I think she meant well.
Or it might have been triggered by someone who said I’m a grown women and should move out not sure though.
I don’t blame the person who said that btw I just hate my situation.
There’s no shame in living with your Mom.
But I understand the need to spread your wings and move out on your own with your partner
Even I moved out and bought my own house when I was married.
This is the sort of thing that happens and my partner points out it’s my moods.
It will happen eventually just need to try find my patience.
Yes try to be patient but I know it must be hard
I hated living at home too. Trust me, things get way better when you move out…
Here’s hoping … I could potentially go spend a few days away from here as a break.
I’m sorry, @anon25873142
I said those comments and I didn’t mean for them to be so harsh.
It’s not easy to get out on your own and I think everyone can appreciate that.
I don’t blame you as you’re not wrong to say those things. I don’t want to be here. I’m tired. But I will get out soon and all will be so worth it
I think you’re right.
You will get out and be able to enjoy a little more space.