I see it as having a partner or being married.
Having a decent job.
Kids.
Good friendships.
Education.
A roof over your head.
I have some of these things. But not all
I see it as having a partner or being married.
Having a decent job.
Kids.
Good friendships.
Education.
A roof over your head.
I have some of these things. But not all
Health & wealth for me.
Health is a good one. I didn’t think of that.
I consider myself relatively healthy. Aside from sz I don’t have any other health issues.
Its when scientists find a treatment for the negative symptoms of schizophrenia.
Healthy mind, body and good morals. Rest is gravy.
Wife and kids are a plus.
Being able to help yourself and others, not trading your heart for foolish ambitions.
steady employment
shelter
living experiences
kids and marriage are not a must for me however.
Being able to set goals and reach them. I’m not good at that due to my sza avolition.
Being passionate about my work (writing and painting). I’m not good at that either due to anhedonia.
At least I can read and look after my husband still. (Most days).
Living life without the expectations of others. If your happy you’ve a successful life.
Being comfy in my own skin body, and mind. Everything else follows.
People thinking I’m not a failure. It’s all contingent on what others think of me, without knowing the real me.
I agree with you @Qwerty
Success is doing your absolute best at life and everything included…
You don’t have to be perfect to be successful.
I just need a husband and then I’ll be close to having it all. Security, a place to stay, income
for bills, and free time to explore self actualization.
Working at a low stress job and coming home and unwind with a good cigar after a nice supper.
Owning ALL of the electronics.
Writing every day. Having a poem published in The Atlantic -
Success is having a college education with a degree or two, a more than adequate income, money in investments, rental property, a nice place to live, a loving pet, a loving family, lots of hobbies and interests, a great exercise regimen, a job either paid or volunteer, a wonderful, fulfilling religion.
I have all of these things.
Um, about that. You’re assuming there’s no worldwide pandemic, lockdowns, concomitant job losses, and an inability to pay rent on the part of your tenants. Just a bit stressful, especially if your finance company is run by ogres with peen breath.
My Idea of success has to do with a lot of health because that is all that anyone in forum needs.right