I have always liked romance.
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This is an odd question. Can’t one have all three?
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I think all these are different. One can have sex without romance or love. One may have romance without sex or love that may come later. They are all different. Of course, one may have all at the same time also.
There are differences how people use the words ‘I love you’, in America these words are used very frequently, but for example in my culture u hear these words not so often and typically when a man says ‘minä rakastan sinua’ (I love you) to a woman, the man really means it. These are cultural differences.
I think that love is most important, I mean I love my friends and family and have totally not had sex with them. The people I have had sex with? Mostly didn’t love them. Romance? Lol
I like this Romanian love music 
In love there is some element of trust involved. Back in 1993 I realized that I could not trust my former US spouse for my life, which was a correct understanding. Back in 1994 I wrote my newsletters and also distributed these to the White House. At that time she came and said that if I threaten the President they arrest me. I never mentioned her to where I emailed my newsletters, they spied on my emails. These were just professional newsletters. But due to my good memory I tested her in 1999 and in the private automobile from Carolinas to Atlanta I said few bad words to her. It took two days after the trip she came to the house where we lived and tried to make me to repeat these words in the house that was listened by some people. I never repeated and I said that I had said nothing. They tried to trap me. I knew I could not trust her for my life. I also stopped saying ‘I love you’ and then in the end of 1999 she just said ‘you have not said ‘I love you’ any longer’. In love you should be able to trust people, but in romance there may not be any trust matters involved. A lesson learned.
Yeah all three with just one person tends to be my kettle of fish.
All three combined
Love - I don’t trust the other two.
Always like reading your posts, Mjseu.
I am a babe that gears up to go cross-country skiing, or wood gathering, or river walking, not a babe that poses in sexy ways. So putting myself into a relationship would not be for sex only.
A non-materialistic romantic, I rather my partner cross-country ski with me, or plan to see the Northern Lights, work on environmental issues, or discuss and debate all kinds of awesome topics than have some sort of superficial tendencies with me.
Some of the best examples of true love I have witnessed are from the elderly. I have seen pampering that comes off as youthful as can be from these folks. Also, elunaseer and his late wife have demonstrated one of the most important Love Stories I can ever remember. Not only was elunaseer’s wife beautiful, spunky and caring, she was creative and super-special. As a strong couple, they made bounds with diy projects. They made a name for themselves in that way.
I am in it for the romance, if romance means camping out to observe wolf packs change rivers!
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I’d have to say love. With love everything else just kind of works out. Love is at the core of connection.
Awesome, and thank you!
Romance can mean different things to different people, and I certainly am for the rivers, northern lights, stargazing, walking or sitting in a sunset, watching birds and forest creatures, or just cuddling long hours on winter nights…
Some people only see it as a more traditional way, dinner and movie, or sitting by a fire…These things too can be romantic, but there is certainly room to expand upon things…
Love joins all the 3 things together…without true love, both romance and sex are pretty meaningless. Like the 2 wolves, the river, and the electricity/lightning between them 
I always prefer love.
Sex can be had with no love… or even like.
Romance is fun but fleeting.
Love is pretty solid.
I don’t understand romance. I know it’s important to my wife, but a lot of what is romantic to her looks inefficient or plain silly to me. I do feel love for her and, because of that, I am working on learning how to make romantic gestures. That is important to her and she is important to me.
I’ll take love over sex because at some point the sex dries up and you’d better have a reason to stay with a person.
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i would like to have all three,ok,i wont be too greedy,love and sex!!