I’m sorry but I like this girl too much to let her go so easily.
I was upset with what she said, but felt she rectified it when she said to me “I’d be willing to change for you” it just took 24 hours for it to click in.
But I feel a real connection with her I asked her if she would wanna start over and she said yes.
Now we’re texting like as if a new beginning.
So what is it that you feel she needs to change?
She said that she’s not willing to be monogamous or stop sleeping with her friend she said she would stop for me as she’s gotten to know me better but it was turning me off at first. But it was a turn on saying she’d change her ways for me.
Oh. Ok.
I don’t personally like people who put sexual pleasure before commitment, but that doesn’t make them bad. Sex can be very addictive.
I hope you two can make it far together. And if that doesn’t happen, don’t despair. There will be other chances.
Well the thing is, I told her I can bring her pleasure too. So it makes me feel inadequate or something or I dunno a lot of emotions.
She says she’s a very sexual person especially when she’s manic from her bipolar. I’m a sexual person as well.
Thursday at around 1 pm she told me all this. It wasn’t till the next morning I commented on it saying I wasn’t interested if she’s gonna be that way. She said she would change for me. I said no pretty much. But then 24 hours I thought about all she said and I feel like we all deserve a second chance. She said she was a little hurt and confused, but I’m happy I reacted the way I did.
If I made it seem it’s ok, she might think it is to me. But I made it clear it’s not to me hopefully she’ll understand.
I also have an acquaintance who has a long term girlfriend but has bipolar and gets promiscuous during mania. She seems very accepting of this. She stays loyal. But the guy has a very erratic behavior (has been fired several times, sometimes insults even his best friends) and refuses to look for better treatment options. I hope your girl can hold her sh!t together, it’s also in her own best interest.
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