So today I wanted to end my relationship because I feel like hes lying and cheating on me at least this is what the voices are telling me. Everything he did was a lie just cant believe him. I asked for his phone and he said no because he says I’m not mature enough. The voices told me hes lying and has whole bunch of females in his phone. Then make matters worse he didn’t have my name saved in his phone. Then the voices said hes hiding something. I made him cry when i said i wanted to leave I thought it would be the best because then he wont be hurt and I dont have to worry about if hes cheating lying to me and plotting to take advantage of me and then leave me and hurt me in the end.
This reminds me of how I used to be. Just think to yourself he’s not cheating
This illness we have causes us of having distorted and unreal images of other things and people and matters, don’t trust on what you understand fully, I don’t know how he really is but give your relationship some time, halt for more clues and more strong evidences than just your thoughts, he can be your saving angle despite all of these thoughts,
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voices will twist up everything you can think of.
basically it sounds like the voices are playing off of an underlying thought you have where you think your bf might be cheating on you. so the voices will play that up however they please.
Good or bad don’t listen to them, it just gives them more power over you.
Don’t let your mind trick you into letting it go either. Make sure your meds are good before you make a rash choice you can’t take back. I don’t get why you wouldn’t be saved in his phone unless he is hiding you from someone else
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I will try to do that
I will give it more time
Your right it does give them more power I hate I’m sick that makes it worse also
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It’s really hard not to let go. One of the things with letting go is that I dont have to worry be hurt or bothered by any of this. No arguing or fighting, no things I need to work on, dont have to worry about the other women, dont have to worry about a plot to hurt me in the end. But I’m trying to hang in there I do love him but this really does get in the way.
I had to deal with someone who wasn’t a real friend who the voices warned me about but I had to wait it out and see for myself. Just make sure you aren’t letting for the reasons the voices give.
You let go if his actions prove he doesn’t love you. You know you love him. But does he love you? That is what you focus on. His actions in your reality.
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Well I found an open condom packet in his back pocket of his work pants. He said it was old and left it in his pocket from when we were not together. But the voices are screaming saying hes a liar he just finished using that on someone.
I don’t want to be the one to say it but that’s almost enough with the condom wrapper. That’s beyond a little suspicious and I’m gonna call him a liar. That wrapper was real and probably not old
Your right maybe my voices are actually trying to help me.
Be careful with that. Even if the voices have said something helpful, it could end up having you trust your voices and they may one day tell you to do something dangerous.
Happened to me and I’m sure some others on the forum too.
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I’m not saying trust your voices. Trust your eyes and heart
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Thank you both I will be careful with them. I feel alot better today than yesterday my allergies are calming down so the voices are a little quieter today. I’m not sure if I can trust what my voices tell me so I will try and find proof whether than rely on them solely. At least that what my therapist says is to question them and try to find validity in it. But he isn’t making this any easier for me that’s kinda why I’m fallen back a little just so I can get my mind right.
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voices want to make things worse, dont believe them
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