My neighbors an outgoing, social dude. I on the other hand, am not. It’s fine but I get irritated because just his attitude is constantly sending out the message that he’s king or something here and it would be ridiculous that anybody would stand up to him or challenge his authority. I went along with the program for awhile until it hit me that regardless of strong his personality is, that he is not always right and that I know more what’s better for me than him. But in our little world, he basically took over the back area with the carport.
It just irks me. And to me, (I can’t prove it though) he even wants to run the insides of my apartment. It is so clear to me often that he is trying to control or have power over me in my apartment but when everything is calm I just sit in my house and overlook it. That’s my biggest gripe, I understand people want a little power and control even if it’s on this little scale at our building. But I figured out maybe 6 or 7 months ago that they don’t want me to have any power and they get pretty mean about it.