Update on me/moi/mich, what about you peeps?

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and my romantic life :wolf: and social life

the man that i asked time out for is now not responding to me after time out which i had asked for.

i think it was for the best because i felt sorta nervous with him although he was lovely,

so that leaves me with two friends in my social life.

a texting buddy and my ex boyfriend we are on weird friend terms,

i think i still love him i realised this but i don’t like the way he does some things although he is absolutely free to do things his way ofcourse, plus there is an age gap

he anyway prefers us to be on (weird) friend terms too.

so it’s all good

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We also decided to be friends not for life necessarily but just to be there for each other through times of change through the next few years at the very least.

i have my reasons for this.

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i will always have best interest at heart for my ex though.

even if we end up not keeping in contact

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You deserve good things. Please don’t believe otherwise.

I’ve learned over time and from bad decisions that sometimes it’s better just to stay friends.

Sometimes the other people haven’t respected those boundaries.

When you imagine a happy relationship, what do you envision?

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Thankyou Llama, so do you, you deserve good things too.

The most important thing is that we both feel content within ourselves , me and my imaginary partner.

Also that we both trust and care for each other, I think these will come naturally when content with oneself.

Because as elle woods said happy people just don’t shoot their husband lol…

Good communication also comes naturally with care for one another and trust.

Thankyou for the question…it made me think!!

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I think it’s good news you were able to remain friends. Don’t worry too much about the other guy who didn’t respond. I hope you find happiness!

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@Zoe sounds like you are handling things really well. And being good to yourself.

I’m really struggling with just daily life. Not working, can’t draw. I am forcing myself to start new hobbies like sewing. I am making a custom bomber jacket for my nephew. I also have my dogs and they make me happy.

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thanks schizophrenisaurus, i hope you do too :slight_smile:
well for now i feel sort of okay which is a good start!

can i ask how the court went or is it private?

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that is good that you are pushing yourself, sometimes that is the only way

and keep in mind things might get easier one day

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Oh, the night before the day, I spoke with my attorney and she said she’d represent me in court and that I would not have to show up. My next court day is on January 21st. There the judge will decide if he/she will dismiss the charges based on my mental illness or if the trial will continue.

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oh riiight, that is a relief that you can skip out on the first one.

because it might be pretty scary,

i also had a case on me which has now finally been ended after 2 years :relaxed:

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That’s great news that it’s over with. It’s actually about the 5th time I’ve had a court date. About 3 of those times my attorney has represented me without me actually having to be there. One ti.e I showed up anyway because I did not know she could present herself before the judge on my behalf.

It’s been about 5 months now that my case has been going on. Technically about 9 months but I was in jail for a year when it started. I want it to end. I don’t want to have to worry about what may happen anymore. I really hope I don’t end up with a felony strike on my record. If I do that will disqualify me from a low income housing program I have been interested in applying for so that I can find affordable housing in case anything happens to my parents.

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Omg a whole year. In jail.

I didn’t realise you were in jail for so long.

Yes I hope it doesn’t go on for too much longer, the case

I totally understand what It feels like wanting answers ASAP since I had my own, but different type, of case on me.

The way I dealt with it was listening to ppl who know about this, what my likely results will be, and sort of just hoping that’s what it will be.

It’s not the perfect solution but it does provide a little comfort

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Hi. I’m working as a part time cashier but I have gotten paranoid at night a couple times. I’ve gotten to talk to a couple cool girls but I’ve been giving the one I asked out some time.

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