sounds ok
makes me feel ok
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@san_pedro . I really donāt want to harp on you this afternoon, I really donāt, but @Moonbeam already asked you to quit spamming. You just seem to type out every random thought you have as a topic.
I just looked down and saw my shoes, maybe I should make a topic called āShoesā and in the text say " they are sitting on the floor". If I do something like this 20 times on the forum people will get annoyed with me as well.
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just bein myself @Bowens
its all I can do
Unconditional love can be divided in virtues and vices i guess. Something like forgiveness, kindness, and the other side of the coin anger, hatred, cruelty.
I wouldnāt want unconditional love from my husband. I think it can be unhealthy, if your partner accepts everything you do, especially if youāre prone to messing up in extremes. I had unconditional love in the past, until Iād gone too far and broken the relationship.
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yesh but it hurts when it isnt repaid.
You really need spell check.
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Jus mek a pdros wzdom tread den u can mek meny posts
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Level, I tnk de otters laik zis yez
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There is no such thing as unconditional love. Nice sentiment tho.
Everything is based on conditions.
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I donāt believe in unconditional love. I have tried to though but failed almost the same day.
I do believe in abundance of love though in some circumstances
my parents would not still love me if I were a sociopath and addicted to heroin. But as it stands their love seems unconditional. Itās just because I never crossed certain boundaries. And Iām a good person overall who knows whatās best for him.
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Or your parents love are based on the condition that you be the best person you can be and not to be the person you described.
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I couldāve got addicted to heroin but I dodged a bullet there. they didnāt raise me to be a sociopath so Iād say thatās true. IDK how is a sociopath created?? Maybe itās not all in parenting. But they gave me enough love and moral virtue I feel I couldnāt have easily winded up like that. Other issues?? Yes.
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@Jonnybegood I donāt think its a personās fault to be addicted to drugs. I donāt think anyone wants to be. If this person harms others - donāt try to find help - I might give up on them.
But If I could work I would like to be working with homeless people and a lot are addicted or mentally ill. I think I would love these people in a capacity that I can. I lived in major cities and have been around homelessness and addiction. I lived in neighborhoods considered sketchy and these people have never tried to hurt me.
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Yez otters is lovin it 
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Iāve trusted ppl with money. All demographics may steal if they need to. No discrimination there. Only on how naive you are. I personally would never steal even if I was desperate for money but maybe in a different life I would. But yes some of the most poverty stricken urban people can be the coolest down to earth people . No Iāve never said anything that got me hurt in the hood. But have gotten dirty looks many times from ppl who just consider me as a suburban white kid. I lived in a rough city for 4 years but I got used to it until I had a breakdown after 4 years. We used to drive to a different city at night to buy stuff when I was like 19 too. That was shady business. But we never got hurt. As long as youāre respectful. Well maybe I was lucky but Iāve personally never had a human attack me since I was in 11th grade. But that was in school ā¦before I was perusing around bad neighborhoods
I lived in a really poverty stricken urban area when i was 18 to 22 yrs hubby got mugged at knife point but he seen it coming and hid his money a bunch of black men. It was a red light district too and i was mistaken for a prostitute on number of occasions especially the asian men would creep me out. I was only going shopping but had high heels on walking so they thought i was one
I like all races i donāt think anyone race is better or worse weve all treated each other bad in the past
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I cannot find this word in any dictionary and now Iām confoozled.
