Hello,
What are some tips for me to gain in confidence if u know any?
I lack confidence and i really want to work on that department.
Regards
Wallafish
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Billion dollar questionâŚ!!! Haha
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Iâm trying to build myself up by being
secure in my insecurities.
Iâm not good at associations in conversations
but I have become a good person because of
that I have the chance to get better at
conversations.
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I read this book as a teenager and it have me a lot of confidence.
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I used to have a Wayne Dyer book but I never read it. Maybe two. But not this one. I got it in a spiritual book lot on eBay.
@everhopeful used to be a ladies man before sz
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Is it true though??
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Yes thatâs true. All in my rear view mirror now though ! 
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I took a âfake it until you make itâ approach to self esteem and confidence,
It worked like magic.
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Confidence can come over night for some but a tip to building it is definitely learning to except yourself for your flaws and all. I have a couple friends that like over 300lbs with depression but they still manage to get ladies because they know that alot of people would make fun of there weight but they learn to say forget it aint gon stop me from enjoying life. Just an example tho. But true confident is something you build by learning not to care so much of what people think
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Pretend everyone around you is sat on the toilet naked. You will soon feel confident in yourself.
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powerful music helps me so much my dude!
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" Everything is Design⌠" in life if you have to work than think it before execution.
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This is what I did. I was very self conscious and hated my appearance. You have to train yourself to think positive thoughts. force yourself to say it, even if you donât believe it truly.
When you see yourself in the mirror, say âi am amazing/smart/loved/whateverâ as much as you can. Eventually youâll believe it, and when you see yourself you will automatically think positive things not negative.
For years I hated myself. Then I started saying âIâm so beautiful, I look great today; my body is awesomeâ and now I have absolutely zero confidence issues (well, when it comes to myself)
Try it out if you want. It wonât hurt being nicer to yourself
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Not that this will give you real confidence but showering every day will set the stage to start building it
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Believe in yourself and everything you say/do. That seems to work for everybody else.
Use self-deception if necessary.
Expanding a bit on that, think of something that you want to be. How awesome would it be to actually be that way? Lie to yourself and say youâre already that awesome person/profession/whatever. Do it as many times as necessary to be able to project your self-image to others.
Then take steps to match who you are right now with where you want to be. If you need to lose weight but canât lose weight, forget about doing it, youâre fine the way you are. Learn self-defense or something, you donât need to be skinny to be good at martial arts.
Just do things to become the best version of yourself.
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