sounds like it. 25,000 oh butterfly. that’s a lot to that guy.
I’m sorry. at least your done with him. Call the cops if he comes around again and scares you or ask someone for help if you can.
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be prepared just in case he ever shows up again what you will do.
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Omg lol I meant to say 2 500 dollars
But its still a LOT I was so naive to step into that messy relationship he had serious money issues
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2500 is definitely better than 25000 but your right it’s still a lot. 
Money issues is probably something you wouldn’t know upon first meeting someone. that’s where loneliness really hurts people with relationships.
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What do you mean by the last sentence
just that sometimes when you lonely you might get involved with someone you maybe wouldn’t have if you weren’t lonely. sometimes not always. sorry i wasn’t more clear.
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Yea I know what you mean Sully. I was pretty lonely and he was a complete stranger in the park giving me so much attention I was really confused by it but happy at the same time lol. Then the money stuff came in and things took a turn.
He’s a jerk. He took advantage. Honestly it’s easy to fall for something like that though. if they say the right things. especially if you feel alone. i could too.
Make sure to have a plan for if he comes back calling the police or whatever.
Yes I felt very alone and it was straight after coming off meds I didn’t wanna be alone during that time back then. Thanks for your opinion.
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Nothing wrong, to me, with paying for sex if it’s safe and sometimes you might want it for the emotional aspect too. Sounds less complicated than a relationship, where the guy usually wants it “his way” lol! Sounds like you’re after a relationship though and a gigalow not a relationship, even if he genuinely cares about you in some way. There are tons of good guys out there who might make good long term partners and where the feelings are mutual.
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I was just joking on the Bigalow. Did you ever see the movie Duece Bigalow? It might be before your guys time.
I can understand why people do pay for sex though… I actually think I would pay just to go out on a date with a guy and practice chatting and talking and socializing and just feeling connected with someone for one night. I know I could do a date too. But sometimes they might not like you or not be real nice or whatever too. There are good guys out there. it’s finding them that’s tricky.
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Man dating is a pain. I’m not good with conversation. It’d have to be something I really liked, like an art gallery. Glad you don’t like a gigalow. No I did not see that movie! What’s it about?
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