Personally, I wouldn’t stay attracted long to someone who was attracted to other women. It’s happened and I don’t stay attracted.
I honestly think I might be okay with it.
It’s difficult to explain.
But yea it may go wrong but that’s life.
Things do go wrong sometimes.
Including monogamy.
How about just have a friend with benefit situation, and just F around and go about your day? When you get some you get some.
Why call it relationship anyways
My relationship with my partner of nearly 10 years began as an open relationship (I still wanted to ■■■■ around when we began dating). We are monogamous now which was a gradual process, but the main thing that has kept us together is an incredibly strong friendship. I think you can experiment and things can still evolve - I’d never have imagined any kind of long term relationship when I was (probably) your age. It just happened. Anyway bla bla bla
I would never have, and have never had, an open relationship. In my opinion, an “open relationship” isn’t even a real relationship. I don’t mean to offend anyone who is in an open relationship.
I believe that a true relationship means both partners are committed to each other 100%. My husband & I don’t even look at pornography. No lusting after other people. Both of us dislike the idea of either one of us getting “hot & bothered” over another person, whether in real life or on a screen.
Crushes are fine, in our relationship. We can think someone is gorgeous/handsome and attractive. But the thoughts shouldn’t get dirty. I think that’s disrespectful to the person being crushed on, too, to think degrading things of them.
My husband and I save our most intimate thoughts & actions for each other.
Okay that’s fine you are all entitled to your opinions.
I personally think it’s perfect for me.
And is real enough of a relationship, as real as it gets for me. And I’m OK with that.
Actually to me it is real.
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I understand. We’re all different.
I was just stating my opinion and my experience.
You do you. 
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Very smart woman
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