I just read some news about hospital at place near my city…
It seems nice for long term stay.
I’m still dwelling.
Here I got only stress of how will I survive,paying bills etc.
This is away from any place with normies.
I’m thinking long term stay…
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IDK man, if it has any similarities to other hospitals you’re being told what time to get up in the morning, what time to go to sleep, what food to eat and when to eat it. Probably require you to take classes or other activities you may not like. Yeah, even just living semi independently is hard but I wouldn’t give up my freedom just to go live in a hospital where you’re stuck with a bunch of people you didn’t get to pick and who you may not like but you have to see them every day.
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Thanks Nick,but I can’t live like this…
I need some place where I can rest.
Thanks for advice,I just hoped that someone more gave me perspective…
Tommorow I will call hospital …
How long do you plan on staying in the hospital?
Who’s paying for it?
What happens after that?
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My uncle with sz is in a psychiatric care home. He’s staying there until the end.
He likes it there.
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Does sz run on your mother’s or father’s side of the family?
I’m trying to pinpoint where I got it from. We don’t have sz in the family. But my aunt is really paranoid and my mother has some wacky beliefs. I think I got it from my mother’s side!
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It’s my father’s side. I also have a cousin with sz and another cousin who had psychoses. I also have a great aunt who spend her life in a psychiatric institution. Honestly my dad’s side of the family is full with psychosis.
My mom’s side of the family is totally different. All very strong women with businesses.
My parents had a good practical understanding but there wasn’t real love between them and hence the divorce when I was 13.
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I’m sorry to hear that so many in your family is suffering. It must be hard. Do you reach out for each other, do you talk to your cousins and uncle?
My mother and aunt are workaholics. But I think that’s what protected them. But I might be wrong, who knows? As I said my aunt is really paranoid, it’s ridiculous.
My grandfather on my father’s side was avoidant and introverted. So my avoidant issues probably stems from him.
My dad is the opposite. An extrovert with some antisocial traits. Ha ha!
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I have a good relationship with one of my cousins. We talk on the phone most days. My uncle and my other cousin I don’t have a connection with.
My dad is a total weirdo who thinks he’s the most normal person in the world. He thinks he’s rational when he’s very emotional. He likes to lecture and give monologues and has believed since I was born that the end of the world was near.
My mom is a total workaholic too! She’s very tough for the outside world but very nice to her family. Our personalities get along really well.
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Yeah, as I said my mother believes in energies, souls, fortune telling, aliens etc. If there’s some weird bs like crop circles, then she believes it. She has some real weird ideas about things. It’s hard to get along with her when she starts talking about crazy stuff. And she never stops talking about it when I tell her I don’t want to hear it. We don’t get along.
My aunt is super paranoid. She’s really suspicious about her neighbors, she avoids turning her lights on so nobody will see her. She takes different routes when she’s driving because she thinks people from her work is following her. She doesn’t want to sell her summer house because she’s paranoid that people at work will see she owns a summer home. It’s really ridiculous!
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I think everyone can tell some crazy stories of their families. People just get often weirder when you know them better.
I’ll try to refrain from that as it gets very weird in my case 
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Haha! I completely understand!
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