Cuckooed. My mate seems to have found a woman that i would deem. “undesirable”.
According to him - just cos shes had sex with him - that gives her the right for him to do the donkey work on her flat spraying for bugs (for which the chemicals i supplied) and cleaning out her clothes, borrowing money and associating with drug addicts.
I know something bad smells about this woman - and im getting the feeling,
that he is being rinsed for money.
But hes “in love” - the daft brush is exactly like me and falls in love too quickly, and is scared of rejection. And this i believe leaves him wide open to emotional and financial abuse. I know cos its happend to me.
So i poked my nose in and phoned up his support worker and told them to check on his welbeing. Did i go too far? I think not.
Ive met many woman that prey on vulnerbale adults. He has bipolar and clinical depression - and the guy is open to abuse.
Im hoping im over-reacting and hes happilly getting the love and attention he craves from a decent woman. But she isnt it. Call me nosey - but i feel im looking out for a vulnerbale mate.
Maybe your right. Im happy enough for his care team to be aware - if any shannagans go on. Its just screams manipulative at me. But i will keep my nose out.
seems like you did what is right, without knowing them i cant tell what kind of person this might be but if he has started all of this quickly he may be getting played, at least your looking out for him
Funnily enough he just turned up to borrow 2 Quid for a coffee. And this is a man thats ALWAYS solvent and doesnt drink or smoke. He was extremely moody and said “the world was gonna end anyway” . I think the womans rinsing his cash and hes stressed out about it - hes the type of guy thats never usually skint EVER. But he wont open up to me.
Im glad i stuck my nose in now - At least his support team are aware.