Think im in love with

My upstairs neighbour. Shes absolutley gorgeoues and so bloody sweet and vulnerbale. She has a learning disability and has carers - but my God her cleaning skills are second to none. Her flat is a palace compared to mine. She kept my mind busy talking this afternoon, about her interviewing new carers cos hers is leaving. She has her money managed for her - via a FAS team. But Jesus - she is doing so much better in life than i ever have done. Its truly not sexual even. I love her as a sister!

How come she can run and manage a flat and finances (with help) - and keep it spotless. Yet me - whos “supposed” to be intelligent - lives in an utter crap hole. Im actually jealous.

Forgive me today - i havent exactly been thinking str8, but blimey. Im seriously going badly wrong somewhere. rog x

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:face_with_raised_eyebrow: Am I missing something? WTF is wrong with you?

Sorry - dont understand. Simply said i like my neighbour - i find her comforting. :frowning:

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I had a friend who had lower intelligence. I couldn’t talk to her the same as any other friend but I didn’t mind. She was so genuine and sweet. Sometimes people like that are the truest friend you’ll ever have. They don’t judge you. They don’t have ulterior motives. They care, simple as that.

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Well this post went down like a lead balloon - maybe i typed it wrong. I was grateful for her company, and unlike most ive met - shes bloody sincere and honest about it. I doubt she has any malice at all. And she honestly cared - and for that im grateful. Im getting over a bad bloody day x

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Well Said !! 555

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Yeah… My apologies… I read that completely wrong. I’m pretty exhausted. Will be more mindful of ensuring I comprehend posts today.

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More power to you. You should date her, and if not that then carry on a relationship with her.

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@SunLion
Shes a lovely lady, and i know she has a soft spot for me, as do i her, but wouldnt date. I would be scared if it went wrong we would fall out - and it would make life difficult for us both as shes only living above me. I see her more as love as a sister anyway. We do go out for breakfast on a sunday tho. Shes classed as a vulnerable adult too - so i would not want to be seen as taking advantage. Just good friends is best.

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@Naarai
It sounds like a beautiful friendship! I’m so happy for you!

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Shes the best neighbour ive ever had. She quite often knocks my door for a chat. Known her 6 years now, shes not allowed to use an oven - so now and again i go up and do her dinner for her when her support workers off sick. :slight_smile:

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That’s all totally awesome!

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Neighbours can be lovely :blush:

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