He’s talking about marriage and kids and even asked about my idea of a " perfect proposal " isn’t 3 weeks too soon 
Yes that’s kinda scary, kinda good you have someone so into you, but at the same time best to throw a cold bucket of water on him and tell him he is scaring you moving so fast
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isn’t 3 weeks too soon
Yes! 
that’s totally bizarre .
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As in he doesn’t intend to propose in 3 weeks obviously but his intentions not to wait longer than 6 months. Still kinda weird talking about it.
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It’s kinda weird he’s told all his friends and family
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I guess for some it works, I knew a lawyer that met a guy on a Friday night and I called her Monday to see how things were going and her law partner said she was away getting married, she quit law and moved to the states with him.
You have to do what you are comfortable with, but my guess is you would like a longer courtship, best to tell him that and see how he responds. I know for me that would scare me away moving so fast.
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OMG, I just googled the lawyers name she divorced him in 1996 three years later and she passed away in Korea teaching English, now I feel sad, sorry not trying to hyjack your thread, was just trying to see how her rushed marriage turned out.
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It’s ok. he even wants to go on a photoshoot lol tbh I’ve never felt so special and so normal he treats me like I’m human and not ashamed to hold my hand or be seen with me in public. Tried to kiss me yesterday but I pulled back and he’s respuctful and giving me my space and time. I think this is the one I might end up proposing before he does. 
I know I said he’s moving fast but it just feels right.
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Well I hope it all works out for you, holding hands is always nice.
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Best of luck to you @anon80629714
This guy seems like he is a gentleman
Who knows, it could end up in marriage one day!
If he’s moving too fast let him know.
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I’ve heard of people with solid marriages who got married only a month after they first met. Just play it by ear. If it feels right, go for it. If you think he is going to use you as his personal servant you might want to opt out. It strikes me that you use a lot of caution in potential relationships. You still have time to check him out. Find out as much as you can about him, then make a decision.
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Taking time to get to know him now, staying in the moment as much as possible and keeping track of your own feelings is important. Don’t be so shocked when someone likes you for who you are and treats you well. That’s how it’s supposed to be.
Best of luck, @anon80629714. It’s nice to see you happy. Enjoy 
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Maybe you’ve just met your perfect match? If it’s moving too fast, don’t be afraid to let him know but go with the flow and don’t overthink anything.
He sounds lovely.
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If you think he is going to use you as his personal servant
I knew there was something I wanted in a soul mate!
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Holy geez. He’s also the one who wanted to take you to meet his parents and everyone in the beginning too right? This is getting a little creepy >_< maybe tell him to calm down lol
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Sounds like he has issues himself. Mind you I have heard of some relationships like that. Whether they are still together today or not is in contention. Best advice in any relationship is be careful so be careful.
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My dads first words to my mum was ‘your going to marry me’ - long story
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Yes only his friends but you no what I will probably spend nye with him and his friends will give me an idea of him so I can get to no him
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I feel completely in awe of him I feel so over the moon and so good about myself. After I pulled back from kissing him we talked yesterday. He said he just wanted to open up my jacket and hug me tightly lols 
His hugs feel amazing. He didn’t do it out of respect though.
Yeah get to know him first ^^ maybe you’re soulmates though who knows