The idea of moving out

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You simply aren’t “feeling it”…love is a feeling…a deep joyous feeling…if you don’t have that…time to move on…especially if you’ve been putting this off…personally it makes me mad that he is playing the sad face game when you mention leaving…he’s playing with your head…guilt games…

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I wouldn’t argue against that, more power to you.

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ive been like that, bipolar thinking , its like that song lyrics from the singer katy pary. your hot then your cold your yes then your no, your in then your out.

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Yes that’s true :joy:

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As one schizophrenia user on this forum posted somewhere along the lines, “If your parents gave birth to you knowingly that they had schizophrenia, would you be glad or upset that you were born with the mental illness”? Your parents seem to have raised you just fine even though you have schizophrenia.

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No it’s not that bad, we have a loving relationship. My illness did some serious damage plus he’s living with it and is nice to me.

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Yes but at the age of 20 years old, I went through full-blown psychosis, I was traumatized. Now I’m living with PTSD, I don’t want another human to go through what I went through.

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That’s like saying that if I had cancer at 20 years old and there was high probability of my children inheriting it as well, I’d might as not have children.

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I never compared psychosis with cancer.

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She says she doesn’t want children,

Drop it.

That’s not what this thread is about.

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I don’t know why people want me to have children.

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People just expect a young woman to have children.

I don’t want children either, @mermaid1,

I completely understand.

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What’s your problem? I wasn’t even posting any statements that was referring to you.

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It doesn’t matter,

You’re asking invasive questions about her ability/willingness to have children which is not what this thread is about.

Not everyone has to have kids,

Jeez.

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So are you her mother now?

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I’m just her friend.

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Sure seems like its more than that. Butting into a conversation.

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She’s my unbiological sister. But why do you care if I have kids or not? The world is already over-populated

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This is one of many reasons I chose not to get pregnant. Most cancer survivors I know feel the same way.

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I hope you decide to move out and restart.

You’ve been thinking about it for as long as I’ve known you.

You’re comfortable with your partner, but not happy

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