I was referring to the Judge Judy show in the USA. They have court cases on TV.
I do know delusions of reference because maybe I get them too.
The people on this board are much smarter then people I meet in real life. So consider that a compliment you all. 
Does a beer ■■■■ in the woods?
Hmmm. A beer that sh*ts. I’ve never known one to do that before. Interesting, I wonder how that would work?
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I have had boyfriends with out job and with mental illness.
I think it is more important one is compatible as in who n all one is.
I want sexual compatability and awesome love life, affection, sacredness, playfulness, be able to make great love together, hang out, relax and feel comfortable together, have mutual attraction and good chemistry or that something can spark up, similar or same understandig of certain things can be good, able to have laugh together etc
A person can be generous in who they are and being thoughtful or sweet or affectionate or love or just by being themself and maybe that is not sweet but maybe that ok and ya love em just as they are just for who they are.
I have had some men write to me that have good steady job and so forth but i was not feeling right about it for some reason . Reason could be they are religious or want children or where they live etc
I have a date tomorrow. He cooks. 
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It would how ever be nice if they are some what active.
Such as exercise, cook at home, clean, maybe have some activity etc
(unlike me lately) I would like to go to beach but something doesnt want me to go and also wanted to go to gym this morning but that did not happen either.
Maybe they are on the pension.
As for mental illness i think it can work beautifully having relationship n marriage to a mad man/woman
As Minnii says it is good if the mentally ill partner /gf/bf is receiveing help and support for their illness .
Hi green6, may i know the link of the Chinese forum please?
certainly you can, ky77. The website address is :
www.kangfuzhe.org
writing in mother language is much easier. The host is also a SZ. But he can hold a good job. He also wrote lots of essays about how to overcome mental illness.
Thank you for the nice post Nick. This is a topic that comes up a lot. When I was younger I thought all women wanted was money and looks.
But I’ve met some real cool ladies in my lifetime who just want a sincere and nice guy. You just have to put yourself out there. A teaspoon of confidence goes a long way too.
women like men who are comfortable being themselves. maybe work on being satisfied w/ what u have. have interesting things to say when u open ur mouth to talk. women dont like guys who are insecure about their shortcomings. be a people person ( also attractive healthy and well dressed) and u will find someone interested in u. put urself in the womans shoes.
I have a mental illness and no job yet my income is more than most people I know who are working but I am already married. However, I think it’s possible to find a sugar momma. There are plenty of women with sugar daddies. There are a lot of lonely people out there. Especially older women I would think.
Seems like to you its all about the money and what your partner makes you pay for or what he buys you…
Seems like all you seem to care about is money and what your SO buys you or what he makes you pay for.
there’s a song playing here on the radio - girls don’t like boys, they like cars and money. boys will laugh at girls when they’re not funny.
very cynical, sorry ladies. i don’t agree with the song
if you meet your soul mate then she won’t care if you have sz
That is on the contrary not so.
I have had mentally disabled boyfriends with no jobs and boyfriends with steady jobs.
But I have had cheap boyfriends which i am opposed to.
I am a generous person in my opinion and would like someone who is not cheap.
If I make and buy dinners all the time and the other party refuses to do so in return despite having more money in person then that is to me disrespectful and a way of saying im not worth it.
You do not know me but if you want to rumble up what i write then thats with you.