Holy crap.
Haven’t spoken for 12 years.
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How did it go? 15
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It went well I guess
…I still have feelings for her
And I’m a total loser lol so I don’t know what could come of it.
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What is she up to? Is there a significant other?
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Oh man I hate to hear you say that about yourself…you’re a great guy @FreeLunch
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Good for u. I have no x y or z in my life. Not sure if I should be happy or sad. And hope it goes well for u.
Btw u are not a loser. Don’t have false beliefs about urself.
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She is a pilates instructor. Both of my exes are lol.
She’s single
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Well, maybe see if you can be friends first, and see where it goes from there.
She may be really different from how you remember her after all this time
You’ve likely changed too
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Not at all bro! You a cool dude 
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All around now. She said so many different things. Hashed up a lot, but she said if it’s meant to be then it’s meant to be…
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No longer waiting for her. Just gonna try to live life. Maybe we will date again but it doesn’t have to happen.
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it’s good when you come to that point of understanding. i still have fantasies about me and my ex getting back together sometimes, but i know its extremely unlikely to happen
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It went well for a while and then I brought up misunderstandings we had and bad fights…
She got upset and asked to get off the phone so I just said I would give her space and await a phone call.
I don’t know if she’ll be calling me back though.
I think I really fd up by going negative.
She clearly wanted to entertain the notion of dating again and I may have ruined that.
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How long were you together before the breakup?
How long since separated?
I was with her for 4 years, haven’t spoken for 12
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12 years is a long time.
She might just wanna be friends now.
And testing the waters to see if you’ve gotten over the breakup.
Or, as you say, looking for someone she can put her trust and hopes on.
Either way, if you fancy being with her again:
- both of you have changed a lot in the meantime
- living in the past isn’t attractive for a potential partner
- I also notice a trend nowadays, people want more personal space and don’t easily commit
My 2 pence
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You broke up for a reason. I think the negativity is just already there, you just happen to bring it to the surface. You might both be wishing that you can get back together and everything will be great but if you do, you may have some of the same problems you had when you were together before.
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Consolidated your multiple ex threads into a single thread.
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Yeah it’s been on my mind
Thanks moonbeam!
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