Broke up with my gf

She turned out to be a really horrible person and just constantly put me down, made me feel like ■■■■, and found so many problems in me.

I’m very ok with her being gone, but I think I’m done dating women…I wanna date a guy but I’m not gonna even look I’ll just see what happens

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I hope you feel free!

I found dating women difficult also,

They’re not as straight forward as men and also don’t have dicks,

Both of which were a problem for me.

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Yeah not to mention our periods kept linking up and nothing good came from that haha

Btw how’s ur recovery going from the surgery you had recently?

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Doing pretty good!

Still very restricted in what I can do and experiencing some pain,

But totally worth it for my new awesome boobies.

I may never wear a bra again!

Thank you for asking!

Also, cycles synchronizing is a real thing and its awful.

Enjoy being single and see if anyone of interest comes along,

That’s usually when you meet the best weirdos!

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That’s great! Glad to hear.

And no problem, yeah I’m just gonna do my own thing for now and see where that takes me

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Sorry you had to go through a break up, I have stayed single mostly cause I fail at most relationships, and I just hate making the trip back to being alone, I.m comfy alone if I keep it that way

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How to even get a gf =.=’’

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I like being alone, but when I’m in a relationship and it’s ending, the whole being alone part seems almost devastating…but then I get used to it and it’s no big deal at all. Just gotta move on with time

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Idk but they just won’t magically appear at ur door asking to date, you have to put urself out there somehow…and then just keep trying I guess.

Although a relationship can just happen out of nowhere sometimes though when meeting someone, so I wouldn’t think you’ll never find someone but it takes patience…it can’t definitely be discouraging at times

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Good luck, just look and see what happens.

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I understand what you meant, when my gf broke up with me it was really devastating…She also had schizoaffective disorder like me…I’m also a girl. We can talk if you want, I’m not a bad person I promise…hope to hear from you.

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Good luck! I don’t do well when single, so I end up staying with problematic partners until I can find a new one. Serial monogamy is a massive bitch, ■■■■■■■ unable to deal with being alone.

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Oh dang sorry to hear. You can pm me if you want.

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Same here I will stay with someone who doesn’t even treat me right just because of not being able to deal with the relationship ending or being alone

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Omfg @GoldenRex I wish I could see :joy: Congratulations on the new boobies!!

@TheStrange sorry to hear that, but it sounds like it’s for the best dear. You’ll be attracted to whoever you’re attracted too, don’t rule it out! :slight_smile:

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It’s so bad. It only hurts us in the long-run, but the short-term gains of being able to function keep me from leaving people sometimes. I usually end up becoming abusive, myself, at that point, until it’s mutually abusive.

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I’m sorry to hear that @TheStrange Sorry she was abusive. You’re better then that.

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Oh actually I just realized ur new and I’m unsure if you can pm yet?..

I can’t sorry…

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Oh ok. Well my gf had schizoaffective disorder as well…her meds got changed and then she changed right along with it.

Are you on meds?