Soul mate idea

DX'd - Sz/SzA
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but I want creating peace of mind

and sharing it here

peace be with you

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The idea of a soul mate is lazy.

Someone just magically drops in your life and you’re meant for each other?

That’s ridiculous.

You get out there, get rejected, make bad decisions, make good decisions, meet someone great and make a relationship work.

It takes sacrifice and compromise.

Nothing magical or “written in the stars” about it.

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On a different note

miracles happen kk?

so?

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Name a miracle that happened.

That you witnessed.

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I think it’s OK to have magical ideas as long as you don’t let it get to your head that it’s all that’s gonna ever happen. Even the best magician has to still perform his tricks to the audience. You gotta make it manifest but my mom always said there’s soulmates so I dunno it can’t be too far fetched an idea if so many people believe in. Obviously life is more than just meeting your soulmate. Doesn’t make it impossible to exist. Some people have more mystical ideas than others. Who’s right??? Who knows

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I was going to commit suicide

and a angle saved me because my time here

wasn’t up 20 years ago

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Oy vey.

That’s not a miracle, that’s a conscious decision not to kill yourself.

And if you’re seeing angels, that’s no miracle, you have SZA.

I’m just saying these beliefs aren’t helping you.

Life isn’t full of soul mates or miracles or lottery wins.

You have to work for success in every department.

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your not living in my boots

so your opinion of me is totally invalid

it holds no truth

I will go on here to spread good will and peace

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Imo hes just making a thread for discussion. Maybe I’m missing something tho

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when I was a young woman,
I thought this one guy was my soulmate,

but years later, he turned out to be a real ass.

by the way @san_pedro I do believe in angels too,
like the ones who are the fighting kind,
pray to them when I start to lose all hope.

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My soulmate is in heaven.

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There is no such thing as a soul mate as couples divorce and remarry. Relationships is a numbers game where the odds are in favor of a person who searches and attempts to find their ideal mate. Intimate or romantic relationships fall under the category of personal relationships in the field of psychology.

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I’ve been thinking about my first grade sweetheart. She was bold. If my family had stayed in that town we might have had a lifelong romance.

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There was a girl i was the ‘boyfriend’ of in junior kindergarten. I saw her all throughout school and even years later 2000kms away in university. I never said a word to her. It crossed my mind we could be soulmates but i dont believe the idea.

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I don’t think a soul mate just has to be romantic, it could be a beautiful friendship

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I was not used to having much love when I was having the start of my illness in 1982. Then a women gave me a lot of love by her words. I thought she was perfect for me. I became obsessed with her for the next 30 years, in spite of her no longer being interested in me. This is the idea of a soul mate going drastically wrong. Be careful with strong love. Sometimes it can be too much.

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You don’t meet your soulmate, they become your soulmate over time, with experience and being tested by life, getting through it together

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