I am often alone and it bothers me, would like to have people to chat with in my real life, are you alone often?
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Apart from talking to my local indian shopkeeper for maybe 5 minutes a day when i pick up the morning milk and eggs , in person i speak to no-one.
But i often speak on the phone and online. I used to get lonely - now i dont frequent pubs / clubs anymore. But life is a lot easier and less complicated being on my own, now im not getting dragged into other peoples personal dramas.
I got used to it in the end - and im happier for it.
Maybe you will turn out the same in time.
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I’m pretty much alone most of the time. I’ve always had some problems socializing, often with feeling a strange sense of self or feeling that I don’t have the normal sense of self that I don’t always feel like verbalizing. I do better online though. I do ok with people when I warm up to them some to, but i find that difficult often.
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When I have close friends it really changes my mood. That’s one reason I was quite a happy child. Living in Germany I had a close friend, and then as soon as I got here England I made a close friend via my parents church. I was such a happy bunny. But then our paths kind of seperated as we got older. Idk how to be around her atm. I once cried in front of her n she walked away cos I didn’t open up. This was wen we met up wen we were older. She didn’t know how to respond which made sense. Cos I didn’t say anything lol bout why I just cried out of the blue she’s very good at just looking deep into me and I feel if I don’t tell her everything then there’s a wall
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I can’t stand being alone, left to my own devices isn’t a good idea, everything unravels real fast.
I greatly enjoy my family’s company, they help keep me grounded.
Don’t have any friends though, but I’m trying to change that with a social group playing dungeons and dragons every week
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