Sometimes it feels like he don't care

It feels like he’s trying to put of meeting my grandparents. He met mum and bro so far. He’s either busy as he says or he’s not serious :disappointed_relieved:

Maybe he is nervous or anxious.
Why should he meet them?
He must meet all your relatives in order to be approved as a boyfriend?

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Let it go, @anon80629714. Have fun with this guy and enjoy everything that’s good about the relationship. Unless you’re looking to get married soon, let this one take time.
Otherwise, if you’re looking for a reason to not be with him, consider why that might be without worrying that he’s the one who’s not committed. Do you really want to be with him? That can always be your point of view… hope that makes sense.

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I’m not asking him to meet all my relatives but I live with my grandparents and they keep asking to meet him.

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And what did he say? Did he refuse?

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Can’t you just tell him how you feel about it?
It’s best to be honest.

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He hasn’t refuses but I just feel hurt cos everytime we make the plan I get excited and it doesn’t happen. We’ve arranged after holiday to meet again.

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Don’t worry. It will happen sooner or later.
Is it urgent?

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No it’s not urgent. I’m probably being unrealistic and pushy but I can’t help how I’m feeling.

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It sounds like you are so proud of your boyfriend that you want to show him to all your family members and friends.

Well yes. Because he’s special but he’s making it damned difficult because he wants to take everything slow :frowning:

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Respect him and don’t push him. I mean you are OK together, it doesn’t matter when he will meet your grandparents.

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