I think that its important to understand that we are not automatons. We all have individual personalities and make individual judgement calls. We try to have united understanding and make judgements based on the rules in uniform ways, but we are all individuals.
As stated in the rules, please pm mods if you think we have made an error. Do not drag it out on the forum and create unnecessary public drama. This is a support forum for sz and related disorders. This isnt Reddit or Facebook and we try to rise above the pettiness of the public arguments on some of this other social media.
So please take it pm and with moderators so we can try to sort it out there in a reasonable way without name calling and petty insults.
I find it laughable that members can publicly throw cheap shots at and harrass the moderators and we aren’t really allowed to respond in any way. I’ve been told around here a lot that I’m not attractive enough for someone to ever want me. Some people are truly awful. We have feelings, you know. But I can’t ever lose my cool. I shut down threads if I think they break forum rules. And if another mod disagrees with me, then I’ll reopen. It’s nothing personal.
You all are doing great job inspite of things. We have to put ourselves in your shoes once in a while to make your life easier. That’s my thought on this.