So there’s this girl

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I had a dream about her last night. She is Hispanic and has the nicest sounding accent I’ve ever heard. We worked together and I thought she was cute before I even spoke to her. I started giving her rides to work. We got to know each other well. We’d go to the grocery store together after our 11p-6am shift and she’d put her hand on the front of the grocery cart I was pushing.
God. I fell in love. After actively trying not to. She told me American guys always want her to be their girlfriend. Like us white guys can’t have a female friend. I believe it. I couldn’t help it. She was so sweet. So caring, thoughtful, smart, pretty.

She had to leave the US cause her Visa expired. It’s been three years since ive seen her and I still think about her a lot. But guess what?! She’s in the US for two months. I might get to see her!

I’m going in knowing I have no chance. So I’ll just be myself. I want to hear all about her travels. She has such an interesting life. Constantly moving from country to country.

I’m in love with someone who doesn’t love me. Ugh.

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Thats quite a touching story :heart:

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UGH it’s killing me today. My stomach hurts so bad because I miss her.

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Won’t she automatically get a visa if you marry her?

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Well. First we’d have to date. Which takes a while. And in order to date she needs to see me as a potential husband. Which she doesn’t.

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I believe men can be friends with women and vice versa even if one party wants something more.

As a 44 year old whose mind became more alive, and someone who now understands the value of companionship, I say this

But you sound like you’re capable of this too. I hope you get to see her. It is a touching story.

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There has to be someone out there for you, guy. That much kindness needs to be shared.

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You don’t have to be her steady and you don’t have to marry her.

Take her to a nice restaurant and see what happens

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