I told this to @anon80629714 about my experiences of this yesterday:
Try to tread carefully
I don’t want to put you off, as I am sure a diagnosis helps some people, but my psychologist put me forward for a test, and now she says she can’t help.
My post0diagnostic support was the specialist not bothering to dial in on my pdoc appointment, being told to pay for a self-help book and being asked to engage a charity for adults with Autism that has a waiting list so long, they won’t even put me on it.
Short of it is, unless by some miracle you have better luck with services where you are, a diagnosis is about as useful as stepping in dog â– â– â– â– .
That sounds awful, @Joker well since I live in a different location, I guess it won’t do me any harm to just mention how I feel about a diagnosis… But thanks for sharing your experience… So your specialist doesn’t give you any kind of autism talk therapy?
She is an NHS psychologist who is retiring next month, and thinks it is acceptable for my therapy to consist of 30 min phone calls over lockdown and to end when she conveniently is leaving.
I was told she could help me either way, but she told me that because I have autism the usual techniques of what she does just won’t help
Really sucks.
Now I have this diagnosis, and I feel annoyed that I have this for life whilst she swans off and rips off the NHS working bank instead of perm
There are 2 groups in nearby towns,but getting to either of them is problematic for me. Undoubtedly they have been suspended indefinitely given the COVID situation.
As for practical help- my stepdaughter had put things in place prior to my being assessed , and there has been no additional support as a result of the Asperger’s dx.
For me getting the dx was about confirming that I wasn’t stupid in believing there was more going on than mental illness…
The damage resulting from years of inadequate/poor treatment wasn’t going to be reversed by a dx at the age of 62.