Single & dating

i am single 7 years, i have reasons why, even though i dream and hope some day i will find the right woman for me…

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im guessing im unattractive

7 years is proof

i need a woman thats in the same boat as me :strawberry:

That’s something along the lines of what I was going to say.

It’s tough to find a good partner, even tougher for a sz.

Still you’ve got plenty of time.

Good luck man.

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probably need to find another Schizo, because normies wont understand…

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Celibacy is the only route for me. It keeps me soothed. It’s nice not having to worry about anyone else’s judgments or criticisms of you. With SZ, I am mostly bed ridden. I hope I adapt well enough to my meds to where I’m not, b/c off of meds I am hi-functioning. I’d hate to be in a relationship and just be laying around all day.

I agree. I feel like I would not be that interesting of a person to date. I don’t really like doing stuff. They would think I’m so borrrring.

I’ve got to much on my plate… Got no time to be a decent lover.

The sedentary life of a schizophrenic.

Anyways man it does sound like you get out and exercise and you have a job. If you had someone encouraging you you’d probably do more. Movies, restaurants, walks/bike rides.

I’m a very minimalistic person at this point and I’m going to try to continue to simplify things.

You have to buy a lottery ticket to win the lottery. In those 7 years, what have you done to find someone? They’re not going to knock on your front door. :wink:

you would be fine and probably would get you out of your mind.

It does help when I spend time with my friend, he is my ex from ten years ago. We are just best friends now, but when I’m with him I hear less voices and he keeps me entertained. We sleep in the same bed, but are not sexual. Lately I always feel in a state of panic, when I’m out and about. Like I can’t wait to just go hide.

Well at least you’ve got some company.

Oh ■■■■ I just realized it’s friday.

Hope I didn’t dig myself in hole. I may say that I’m asexual, but doesn’t mean females aren’t there

I had already forgotten you said that. You don’t have to keep saying that. You can always claim impotence if things really aren’t working. If you really are asexual and have no interest in sex, that is cool too. There are girls out there like that as well.

These things don’t really matter if you find the right girl, which I’m assuming you would very much like.

I was only in one relationship for like 3 months while I was psychotic. The rest of my life I’ve been single. I’m kind of used to it. There is a part of me that wants to get married, and another part of me doesn’t want to bother. I figure that I’m probably pretty unattractive too.

What’s that mean. Your going to go drink?

I work weekends so Friday SUCKS! I don’t like cashiering anymore. I don’t think dealing with customers is my scene. I just had to take a klony right when I got here. They make me craze, the energy Is just frantic, or maybe I just feel frantic…so it goes

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More in reference to not being alone. People are going to partying tonight I’m sure.

Also I dread touching people’s money and stocking the cooler. The cooler is so noisy and makes creepy little voices to me.

Yea, you can go hang with your buddies and de-isolate.

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Dude I hate fans. Get weird voices. Air conditioners too.

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A bipolar or schizo-affective who agrees on meds, targeted individual or churchy version of things works best. Respect keeps the relationship solid, not being called a nutcase…Snivelers and people who make a scene of verbally harassing another will do worse to you…My city has turned a lot of the older & middle class men into flat out predators who will use their job to ruin a catch and work her over good…If you see this, plan to move as usually it results in loss of woman’s job a few times and some guy tries to latch on and court/cops are so dirty there is no way out. The men in my city have LOST IT! So many churches taught passive aggression and sniveling it’s a cult religion, the strong ones are minority as the churches are even breaking up marriages for their GAWD, anti-christ situations run by the dirty businessmen in town.

Church ain’t good place to go to meet anyone okay. It is passive aggressive psychopathic stronghold in the big non-denominational churches with social groups, cults really. Some of these big churches will trash you and have their people harass you so badly for years, you will have trouble working around their kooks. If this happens, just leave quietly. Online dating, bars and meetup.com are best options for meeting people. I would not try church unless it is denominational mainstream or you now several parishioners really well…

Some of the women do this too…If she seems fake, ditch her after it gets boring…She may play with people with money, cheating or emotional abuser…She could ruin you if she managed to crack you up…Courts will let her use you up and ruin you, especially if you reproduce with a vampire witch.

Some people say hello by telling you something private you are thinking, this is pickup approach for some. You can get a person who understands a lot this way if he/she doesn’t call you a nutcase or tries to use your disability benefits. Either you get all good ones or all weirdos. You have to test it to find out…