She won’t talk to me now

Before diagnosis and before psychosis I was aware I was ill but wasn’t sure what. I quit a job. I thought everyone there hated me and my colleague was moving things so it looked like I didn’t do my job properly. I didn’t say though.

I am back at that job. I apologised to the colleague and told her I’m sorry if I misbehaved but I’m not sure what I did. I mentioned I was depressed. And now she doesn’t even say hi or bye.

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Are u taking about ur friend or mom…i am glad u r back to job…i am also looking for volunteer job … take care ish…!!

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Some people take offense easily. It’s best to not get emotionally involved with them. Just humor her, and maybe she’ll change her ways.

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There are a lot of damaged people out there, @anon80629714. You’re not the only one. I always expect people to be nicer than they are. So I’m constantly disappointed and/or worried that people hate me (especially at work), but when I think about it, it’s just because they have their own issues.
Don’t take any blame and don’t give her too much credit. If she can’t say hello to a coworker who has been vulnerable and honest, then she has issues. It’s her.
Just keep being friendly. Whether or not she’s capable of being friendly back is on her.

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Wait, so you went back to a job that you had quit 6 years ago ? (Or whenever your illness broke out) … Aren’t you afraid that whatever external triggers contributed to the onset, those triggers might be related to that work place ?

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8 years ago. 6 months before the break down. I’m not worried as the job has no contact with patients.

Ok @anon80629714 I’ll take your word for it :slight_smile:

Hope you can sustain focus and motivation to work for many months or even years, this time around :+1:

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