But nothing is happening, right?
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Eh… She’s the cat’s mother!?!
No, she’s the neighbor who waits me out all day until I relax and then she makes her move and picks on my weakness. I guess I have to believe my step-dad. I can’t win against these people. And it’s possible I will go crazy trying.Too mean and rotten.
Alright, clue us in. Who is she?
Just be over nice to her. Drives people like that senseless. Also makes out to others that you’re not the one with problem. Chances also are you will get more moral support dealing with her by others doing it that way. Illegitimi non carborundum - Don’t let the bastards grind you down…Even if female.
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you just have to ignore her…my mother and mother in law are like that, always putting you down…( though i don’t see either of them anymore )
when you ignore them you ’ win ', trust me.
practice ignoring them, run senarios in your head, ignoring them, picture yourself ignoring them.
it works for me everytime, and you win everytime, it is sweet revenge, you deny them your time, presence and your light of humanity.
take care
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I dont know your case. but when I feel defeated by poeple because I have symptoms about them when I talk to them they are really down to earth and welcoming to me. Then the next day I have symptoms about them thinking I am bieng humiliated by thier intercessors and when I talk to them they seem to really care for me. When I talk to them its like nothing is happening and we have some love to share. Then afterwords I feel I am bieng controlled for them. I like your saying nothing is happening right. Thats what I think is reality. This schizophrenia is really wierd at times. I am glad I talked to my nieghbor today it helped calm me down and think, nothing is really happening.
Thanks Darksith.Sounds like a good idea.
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This is the only way, I guess.
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Do you have any other solutions?
No, I don’t. One thing nice is that when your neighbor makes those noises , they affect or annoy everybody arround her room including her. And it consumes her energy, too. So just ignore them as much as you can. Let her be the only actor in the conflict.
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Luckily my neighbors can’t hear me, I live in a house with my parents. I have screamed in here and no ones can hear it except for my sister and parents and the cats and dogs, but the cats don’t care and the dogs are informed of my mental illness, I explained it to them in detail and they wagged their tails in affirmation. Budge even licks my face whenever I sit or lay on the couch, he would be sad if I died. I think you might be a little paranoid in thinking that your neighbors intend to mess with you. People are strange animals, they make noises, especially me, I make noises all of the time like BLEH or my mad scientist laugh when I finish a paper. When I get really bad I make worse noises and look like I have Tourette’s or some form of autism or something. Like when I impersonate a blender with an iPhone and vodka in it.
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