It sounds like she’s suffering from lack of insight. All you can do is point out what’s happening to her and point out that she wasn’t like that on meds.
But if she doesn’t have insight, then you’ll have an uphill battle unfortunately.
I’ve always been scared of getting an STD so I’ve never slept around, plus I hate condoms, they really kill the experience for me. I’d rather be having sex in a monogamous relationship where there is no risk of disease, or a lower risk anyways, she could cheat.
When I was manic bcz of Abilify I had sex with strangers but I always used protection. Anyways now I am so happy that all that mania stopped after stopping the Abilify. I am not taking dopamine agonists like Abilify again as I read that they cause mania in some ppl by causing dopamine dysregulation syndrome.