Anyone else have this problem? I feel down and my sex drive kicks in. It gets in the way of making real connections and I can’t even really fully function sexually like I used to. It’s like in my teens I could walk the walk but couldn’t talk the talk, in my twenties I could do both, now in my thirties I can talk but can’t walk the walk. I keep getting to the point of sex in relationships and then it’s a disappointment. Idk. I think I’m a sex addict. I have various issues. I wish My mind didn’t turn to sex everyday at like noon when I feel the slightest demotivating feeling. I could be way more productive and I consciously know sex is trivial ish but my subconscious is just like forcing me. I think I have intrusive sex fixations I wish I had more control over my desires. I’m such a ■■■■! Idk. TMI probably but what do you do if you have this issue? I spend hours finding random hookups and then I don’t even enjoy them, it’s this shame spiral. I just want to focus on my art and music but I feel so distracted.
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You need to teach me how to have these sexual interactions that make you feel better. If they don’t make you feel good anymore, maybe it is time to stop.
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Lowered expectations my dude
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