Same sex marriage

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hello, if I grow functional I am interested in sex free same sex marriage.
I think this is the most suitable thing for me.
Of course I would be looking for someone who is an Israeli, an Israeli guy
that I have shared interests with and so that we can build a household together.

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Have you always been asexual, Erez?
I used to have a good libido before. Now after schizophrenia my libido has become very very low. It’s frustrating.

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Hi @Andrey .
I am firmly asexual.
The past doesn’t matter.
My identity as an asexual and as someone who has no erections is firmly cast.
I am happy with it, its part of my identity and a part with which I am content.

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I mean, it’s easier to accept the situation if you’ve always been asexual. For me it’s frustrating… I want my libido back. But I completely agree with your position.

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I want my libido back too :frowning: I miss it. I was a healthy girl.

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This is for you Erez

: ):cake:

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Do what makes you happy, bro.

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I am also asexual. I wish you the best !

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You are very lucky, I would like to be libido-free too. :slight_smile:

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There are probably some asexual dating sites you can use. :slight_smile:

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For a time period, I was interested in an asexual, same sex relationship, without marriage. I was actually in a situation like this for years until the woman that I was involved with got tired of the fact that there was no sex, so, she ended it. I miss her sometimes.

I am asexual both because of meds and because of religious reasons.

I’m with Erez as far as being asexual is concerned. The past does not matter. I’m firm in my asexuality today. I’m ok with it. Happy even.

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I am in a same sex relationship and usually I don’t receive sex but I pleasure my partner. I rarely get pleasure. I just want to make my partner happy.

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Didn’t know that was you mate…

Is that sort of thing legal over there?

Meant to be a response to @Chess24

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Is it because of the meds? Are the meds causing this? Have you tried different meds that might not cause this? Have you seen a primary care physician about this? It might be a cardiovascular problem. I’ve heard some people use pycnogenol (pine bark extract) and citrulline (a source of NO2) to fix the problem.

I’m in a same sex relationship but we’re not married, just dating, and I don’t think he would stay with me if there was no sex. But yeah, he has a much stronger sex drive than I ever do. I would think it would be difficult to find a partner who would accept no sex at all unless they had the exact same issues (no erections, etc.).

But good luck finding someone who feels the same way.

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Hey there, my libido has decreased dramatically since being out on Risperdone. I used to have a very high sex drive. I’m gay and married btw

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@Wesley I was asexual before the meds.
I don’t feel it’s a problem.
I don’t know if I have cardiovascular problems, after all I exercise daily and pretty intensely.
I am very happy that I have no erections frankly.
I don’t feel it’s a problem.
And I would add, even if I had erections I guarantee you that I would do my best not to masturbate.
Yes it would be best to find someone similar, someone who is asexual.
I haven’t seen a physician about this, no.

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I’m not sure I’m asexual, but I’m just not that interested in sex. Been 27 years since I had intercourse. Wouldn’t have had sex with anyone else when my wife was alive, but she’s been gone 12 years.
I guess if I had had an urgent need for sex I might have gone down the route of many a socially dysfunctional male and sort out a prostitute.

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