I know it’s due to feeling inferior. Like I’ll reject you before you reject me.
I can never believe that it’s genuine. Like, I feel like my mom is just putting them up to it. I can’t trust anybody irl, just a bunch of lies. It’s why I’m much more trusting of online friends
Sure Sometimes, Not Always. Isolation/Little Socializing + Schizophrenic Tendency to Be Passive can really screw with my head. I try to be polite, kind, and understanding. The World isn’t nice, being nice can attract some messed up people. It’s ok to not be friends with people you aren’t going to like everyone & you will have to reject people before the situation gets bad.
I hung out with a Woman in May, nothing romantic. Just 3 times, mostly just listened to her problems. New Person so I was suspending judgement & being understanding.
She tells me I’m the only person who understands her. Noooopppppeee!
I’m Being Nice! You have dominated most of the Conversation talking about your Sad Life. You are a Human in Pain so I Comforted you. (I didn’t say these things)
I Gotta watch out for Clingers, I don’t do well with people who can’t give me space.
With me it’s kids I want to reject the most.
Pffft lol. I don’t know what you mean by kids & I don’t know old you but I think you are older then me me But Yes a Thousand times Yes. Young people are off-putting to me. I don’t blame them. They are still growing. I am nice. Real True Blue Empathy is rare in kids/young people it’s a part of the brain that fully develops in adulthood, if it ever does. Some people get it early, some people never.