Everyone keeps telling me like my psych nurse for example I need to find some time for myself. Even if I go out with my partner somewhere.
6 months ago we booked a table which cost quite a bit of money to go and play a game of warhammer. About 10 mins after we got there my mum rung for us to come home cos she couldn’t coped with the kids.
It really put me off doing anything for quite some time.
Anyway last week we booked to go to the cinema. We planned and asked my partners mum in advance to have the kids that day just for like 4 hours.
We have been let down……again
I don’t ask for this much. It’s very very rare.
I’m starting to think people are deliberately doing this.
I was even at the dr today and my son was waiting in the car with my partner. My mother told me “you should
Be bringing your son into your appointment because
It’s not fair for him to wait in the car”
So yeah I don’t even get 5 minutes privacy in an appointment for myself
I get paranoid leaving my kids with people. Trust has been practised with his mother. His sister is great with Kids. Just never left them with her before.