Another one of my partner’s paydays and I’m not allowed to go with. This happens every freaking payday! Last time was because I had to dog sit. This time it’s waiting for a package for my brother in law. My partner knows I hate being left alone she just says " I’ll bring you something ok?"
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I don’t think it’s because she doesn’t want you around. She probably needs some time alone or with her friends, that’s all. Try not to worry. Your partner loves you.
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She always goes with my mother in law. I know she loves me but it’s like I’ve been out of the house not counting doctor appointments. Once in the last month. That was just to pick up a Christmas basket for a food pantry with my in-laws claiming most of the food
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Have you talked to her about it? Maybe you guys could set up a designated day each week that the two of you go out wnd do something.
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What does she say when you tell her you want to go?
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She said it’s not her choice for me to go or not. Her mom says it’s my partner who doesn’t want me to go
I don’t want to hurt your feelings but it sounds like your “partner” isn’t much of a partner at all. She shouldn’t be leaving you behind. She should want to be with you.
You need to sit down with them together and hear an honest answer. You shouldn’t be treated this way. That’s not love.
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