Processing trauma takes a while

I’ve been out of a highly abusive relationship for 3 years now and being out is the only way I’ve found stability , along with ssdi.

I’m still processing it, but I’ve come a long ways. Today I noticed everything reminded me of it and it annoyed me but I didn’t break down or have a flashback. Which is huge. Just a year ago I remember having one of the most intense flashbacks I’ve had , it was over her. Look how far I’ve come!

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EMDR therapy is supposedly excellent for trauma.

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It is. I’ve had it before for childhood stuff, changed my life. This time I had psychodynamic therapy. Also changed my life

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I have a lot of trauma from my childhood.

I had short term therapy at the VA but it was a joke.

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Me too, a lot of traumas, from small wounds to open wounds, sounds like you are on the mend

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I have some abandon like issues from my childhood, I was taking therapy at the VA but my therapist was always pushing me to volunteer, her answer to all my problems.

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I’ve had ptsd or cptsd im convinced since my brother tried to kill me and beat up my mom. It’s gotten better over time but I still don’t sleep well. Lately though I haven’t been having dreams about him as often. They are really intense when they happen and I wake from them a lot.

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