Poll: What was your longest relationship?

  • Never had one
  • Less than 6 months
  • 6 months to a year
  • 1-2 years
  • 2-4 years
  • 4-6 years
  • 6-8 years
  • 8-10 years
  • Longer than 10 years

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My high school sweetheart was not even real dating or relationship :thinking:
We were together :thinking: from 14 - 18 when I dumped him and left the country. I saw a few guys on and off never liked or cared for anyone.

:thinking: Now since 2011,once he stayed in hospital during my relapse :flushed:

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all together the time of my marriage was around seven years…we were officially married only six years.

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My first marriage (and relationship) lasted 25 years. It ended amicably in 2013.
My second marriage (and relationship) is going on 4 years now.

Do I get any points for any of this?
I feel I should.
:nerd_face::smiley_cat:

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That is amazing :flushed:

I am happy for you

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I was married to my ex wife for 7 years but was in a relationship with her for like 2 years before marriage.
I wish her well but glad that it’s over.

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Hmm Serious relationship or more of an affair. I ended up playing doctors and nurses since I was nine with the girl up the road. It was going on till I was like 17. Longest serious relationship was like 3 years. Not sure I’m even capable of a relationship to be honest to many issues with my mother. Which has totally screwed me up with women.

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I’ve been with 4 women. I basically jumped from the first, to the second, to the third leaving each one for the next. The third one I dated for about 3 months which sadly was my longest relationship. She ended up dumping me because of her ex not letting her see her child because of me, which was a lousy excuse to dump me. She ended up wanting to see me again less than year later but I avoided her.

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27 years … so far.

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About one year really .in person.

In another way
My longest romantic relationship was with Anders I think.
We broke up but kept contact.
I am sorry for our wrong doing to each other .
I was not feeling like myself and used to binge drink etc and I was psychotic and we did not have sexual awesomeness n kisses but he was my best friend and gave great cuddles and was lovely to be with.He was sacred to me and perhaps always will be.
We were not a couple for long though.
My time frame is strange but perhaps a year of less.
After that he visited every now and then and occasionally had sex too.

I was with another man for about a year but we were not romantically compatible at all.
He was a nice guy but we were clearly not suited for each other.
Don’t know why it dragged on a whole year when we were not right for each other.

My neighbor I had amazing sex with .
Intense orgasms that made me cry and our hearts clicked.
But apart from getting jiggy we did not get it on so much.
We did not hang out much and I did not feel I could turn to him .
I did not even feel I could turn to Anders when I was psychotic.
His friends hated me.
My current boyfriends friends do too I think and his family I think.
I hope me and all my xz have forgiven each other.

I think wrapped up my longest romantic relationship may of been one year.

I think I have been with my current boyfriend for 9 months or so.
We hope to move in with each other officially in August.

I love him and love living with him.

I think we could spend the rest of our lives together.

But I’m do not like being around most of his family and friends.
I have felt attacked by them and hated by them for no reason I can think of other than jealousy.

I do not want to be around some of them.ever.
Feel uncomfortable n aweful.
Specially after how they treated me.

See if our relationship can stand through it.
It has so far.
I thought they would drive me away with all their hate and attacks but I love :heart:️ him.

i wish my xz well.:two_hearts::ghost::pray:t3::v:t2:

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I really tried often to get a relationship but it never really worked. When I was a teen, I was having serious problems with my self confidence and I was having social anxiety, so having a relationship was almost impossible. But while growing up, I was fighting these problems successfully. I was able to control my anxiety. But then I became sick for 12 years so during all this time I couldn’t have a relationship. Now since I’m taking the antipsychotic, I’m healthy again, but it seems the antipsychotic made me lost totally the ability to control my anxiety, so now, I often feel social anxiety just like when I was very young and because of that it would be really difficult for me to have a relationship. I feel really sad about that and I worry a lot.

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2 and a half years was my longest relationship. We grew up with each other. After that I’ve had a couple relationships that lasted a year or less. Haven’t been in a relationship in years. That’s okay though. I feel happy for the most part. I do miss that feeling of being special to another though.

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Mine was just over 2 years.

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I was with my ex husband, on and off, for about sixteen years total. He wasn’t abusive the entire time. He mellowed out as he got older. Much older.

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I said “never had one” because the last guy … although at the time I thought we were dating … I don’t think that’s what he thought of it. :confused: I am quite a strange one and he wanted a laugh.

I mean … he used to say really nasty things about his exes and laugh and crack jokes about them … what makes me different ?

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you know… sometime you need to ‘turn a blind eye’ to certain things. Something I do.
If I think clearly about the things that I do or others do or my bf did, I would never be in a relationship.
People are different

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Sigh yes but still learned a lot from him.
I couldn’t even see he was trying to put me down through his comments. Saying things like “you need a new wardrobe” and “you need to exercise” and then saying “I’m saying it so you can feel happy about yourself” and “I like you as you are but I’m saying it so you are happy with yourself” hmmm he looked really handsome to me but with the goodbye … I quickly lost the attraction :roll_eyes: I felt for him though. For a long time.

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yeah he is doing something nice telling you -you need a new wardrobe. He cares enough to be frank :unamused:
I buy and decide everything for my partner (clothing wise) and decide which food to make. Nag him everyday to lose weight and go to the gym and some other stuff :joy:

All men talk about their exes, and usually in a bad way. My first bf said I used to beg him to give me drugs :unamused: LOL I never did drugs and my current bf was dumped by some girl, but he had told me that he had caught her cheating with another guy. :joy:

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Lol ok fair enough but he tracked my phone. So he’s a creep stop defending him LOL :joy::joy::joy:

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How did he track your phone? 'through find my friends :unamused:

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