Poll: What was your longest relationship?

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Yes. I was stupid. Too. :frowning:ļø

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I know but I told him I was happy how I was. I was comfortable but he wasnā€™t having it. I needed my hair done and needed new clothes and shoes ā€¦ ahhh well ā€¦ maybe he was a good guy but he wasnā€™t right for me I guessā€¦

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Ok. Iā€™m sorry. I guess we disagree. Iā€™m pretty stuck in my way that I should be what makes me happy and he should be what makes him happy. I donā€™t want to find someone to change him. I want someone I like from the start. :confused:

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I like your new title @anon80629714. ā€¦The serial daterā€¦it gave me a good chuckleā€¦:blush:

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Ahaha but Iā€™m not a good one at that :see_no_evil:

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I wish you the best :v:ļø:v:ļø:v:ļø
Just a subjective topic i guess

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:slight_smile: haha thanks. If Iā€™m doing it wrong itā€™s ok ā€¦ I spend life alone but in a sense Iā€™m prepared. Would be nice to have a partner

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I am sure you will :o)

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Never had one and it is very worrying and sad that an 82% had a relationship. :persevere:

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My longest was with my ex-wife. We were together for three years, though we were married for just the last six months of that. My only other really serious relationship was with my last ex-gf. She and I were together just over a year, then split up, then six months later we got back together, then split for good six months after that. Yeah, it was a big mistake getting back with her; if it didnā€™t work out the first time, why would it have worked out the second time? Stupid.

Thereā€™s a woman I have my eyes set on now. Weā€™ll see if anything comes of it.

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Keep us informed ! :smiley:

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I would be careful about doing that. As a guy, I can tell you he may come to resent you for trying to mold him into the man you want him to be, rather than accepting him for the man he is. Stuff like that is part of why I no longer wanted to be with my last gf; she made me feel like I wasnā€™t good enough, undermined my self-esteem and confidence. You may see it as harmless nagging, but he may feel differently.

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Mrs. Pixel and I celebrated 17 years of marriage on July 8th. Weā€™ve been together for just over 18 years.

I should add that she has spent the past 18 years trying to change me without success, with the one exception being that I can get dirty laundry sorta kinda near the hamper now. She must really love me.

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goodness! you got on my nerves :joy:
stubborn men!

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Iā€™m adding that to my list of super powers.

:grin:

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welcome back! Hope you are alright!!!

I was exaggerating a bit about the naggingā€¦_________

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Itā€™s all good. The vacation was not all I hoped it would be. Will put that in a separate thread later.

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