Poll: Do you have people who care about you?

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I have people who care about being inconvenienced if anything happened to me. I have nobody who actually cares about me per se. It is what it is.

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Iā€™m sorry, @everhopeful. I think people here care about you, even if we donā€™t know you irl. I hope everyone has someone that cares for them.

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My honest answer is ā€œI donā€™t knowā€.

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I do but they are much older than me and wont be around forever. When I am older I will be all alone.

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No, I have people who go out of their way to make me unhappy.

Actually, my sisters and my step-parents care enough that they would tell me if I was about to make a mistake. Or give me advice. But I rarely see them and the people I come in contact with do not wish me well.

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I remember my hip arthrosis.
I asked my father to pick me up and drive to hospital.
Heā€™s every time answer was Go slowlyā€¦

I fell in bus when returning homeā€¦

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My father seriously cares for me. But it is constant stress. As he always stresses me to take care of myself. I talk to someone weekly as a professional who cares about me. The concern they have for me keeps me caring about myself.

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Iā€™m sorry @everhopeful thatā€™s sadā€¦ I like to think we care for one another here on the forumā€¦ but obviously itā€™s hard to do that since weā€™re not interacting irlā€¦ you seem like a good personā€¦ Iā€™d probably befriend you irl too

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Iā€™m sorry @everhopeful and @anon83704208

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Im Sorry manā€¦I know what thatā€™s like. Life can be a wildernessā€¦for sure

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My parents my brother my sister my aunts and a few of my uncles every uncle but one cares about me

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The only person on the planet that cared about me unconditionally was my Mom.
I think that there are certain people now that care enough about me but Iā€™m not fully convinced
This includes my father and brother and a few of my aunts on my fatherā€™s side

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A good question would also be: Do you care about someone else?

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Internet hell no.
Irl yes, I push them away though, ironic

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I blocked my dad on my phone. He was same way. I started talking to my step sister again too, and he always talks to her. It was a recipe for disasters, I had two people always in my business so just blocked both lol

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Yeah. Pretty much my family. I have 3 nieces and a nephew as well. Maybe my therapist and some friends and staff at day treatment.

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I have my birth family and my chosen family. Iā€™ve not seen any of my birth family since 2018. Iā€™m in regular contact with my brother via email. I interact very occasionally with my sister. Iā€™m sure they care and love me,as I do them.

My chosen family I see quite a lot. They care and love me too, but theyā€™re far less reserved than my birth family in doing so. Itā€™s far easier to say ā€˜I love youā€™ to them, than it has ever been to my birth family.

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Yes, but not many.

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It would be nice if I could get some people to care more about me and others less.

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For now, yes.
Besides family, a handful of friends whom I try not to piss too much.
No significant other.

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