POLL: Do you enjoy sex?

I have sex, but I hyperventilate a lot because I was sexually abused. When that first started I didn’t really know what was happening.

I can mask those feelings in front of girls but inside it feels awful.

I have a few regrets about taking things too fast with girls. I’ve learned my lesson.

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I’m sorry. Once you really like someone, you might feel at ease and good. I’m sure you can go through it. If you want to talk about it, you can message me anytime :blue_heart:
What do you mean taking too fast with girls? I have never had a one night stand. I would never. Is that what you’re talking about?

I didn’t really enjoy sex when I had it. Too many hang ups about physical closeness and inept performance. I just was rather useless at it.

@danddolo, who were you asking?

I use to be a ■■■■. I quit drinking and that was my new addiction, to work out and hook up.

Then I realized I was really looking for romance and these guys just wanted sex. I thought maybe something would come from the hook ups, but never did. So I quit.

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what is sex !?!
did i miss out on something again…!?! :imp:
take care :alien:

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I wouldn’t say I don’t like sex, but the last time I did it he drew a chalk mark round my body after.

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WHY??? :dragon_face:

He thought I was dead.

Must have done a good job then

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Last time I had sex was in a shower. It was alright, I wasn’t super into the guy.

OMG I just started laughing out loud at work. :laughing:

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Best laugh all day!!! I’m still cracking up!

thanks Karen, that means a lot.

I 've never had a one night stand, and I don’t plan on it. I mean just being physical in general before the girl knew me well enough.

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I was the most sexually active between 17-18. I enjoyed it back then. Had a few more encounters into my 20’s but after starting meds I couldn’t get it up for intercourse except on maybe 2 or 3 occasions. Haven’t had it in a few years, I’m way too fat now for it to be enjoyable for me or the girl cuz of the beer belly, so I’m gonna wait to slim down before I chase the booty again.

Man I remember when I was feeling well and fit, I would wake up, put a towel on the sofa and start jelqing (enlargement exercise) with baby oil then shower and head to gym. Those were good days man. Nowadays I just fap to relieve the tension, got my own little fetish and don’t have any trouble climaxing. :pensive: .

See?

The crazy one threatens us if we don’t do it.

Nature won’t let us go, no escape. She’ll hurt us if we don’t.

I just try to treat sperm as i would like to have been treated as sperm.

Meaning shot into a piece of toilet paper and flushed down the toilet, that is a more fulfilling life than this crap.

I’ve only had one sexual partner - almost became a marriage, which is what both our intentions started out as. We were both 22 and I learned just how easy sex was (for me).

Problem was, we both had irreconcilable differences, even though we could work up a mutual climax during arousal. Strange.

Wow!!! One partner. Thats unique. How old are you?

The act itself is ■■■■■■■ repugnant and disgusting.

I don’t like or want to be an animal or biological organism, it’s ■■■■■■■ disgusting ■■■■.