I’m sorry. Once you really like someone, you might feel at ease and good. I’m sure you can go through it. If you want to talk about it, you can message me anytime
What do you mean taking too fast with girls? I have never had a one night stand. I would never. Is that what you’re talking about?
I use to be a ■■■■. I quit drinking and that was my new addiction, to work out and hook up.
Then I realized I was really looking for romance and these guys just wanted sex. I thought maybe something would come from the hook ups, but never did. So I quit.
I was the most sexually active between 17-18. I enjoyed it back then. Had a few more encounters into my 20’s but after starting meds I couldn’t get it up for intercourse except on maybe 2 or 3 occasions. Haven’t had it in a few years, I’m way too fat now for it to be enjoyable for me or the girl cuz of the beer belly, so I’m gonna wait to slim down before I chase the booty again.
Man I remember when I was feeling well and fit, I would wake up, put a towel on the sofa and start jelqing (enlargement exercise) with baby oil then shower and head to gym. Those were good days man. Nowadays I just fap to relieve the tension, got my own little fetish and don’t have any trouble climaxing. .
I’ve only had one sexual partner - almost became a marriage, which is what both our intentions started out as. We were both 22 and I learned just how easy sex was (for me).
Problem was, we both had irreconcilable differences, even though we could work up a mutual climax during arousal. Strange.