So I have just realized that every single thought I have is about myself. I talk about myself a lot although I know how to act. I’m not normal. Am I a little abusive even though I’m not hurting anyone?? Nobody here has ever met me here but I’m weird sometimes I am worse than trump honestly. So my question is why do people hate narcissists so much? Perhaps I’m not a narcissist but I have that style similar to a lot of kardashian types although not nearly as bad. I’m like a super nice and very generous and helpful narcissist . Why has a psychiatrist never diagnosed me with that. I might be something totally different but basically I look in my reflection every single chance I get I’m basically in love with myself . It’s possible that I’m slightly a narcissist and not in a disorder way. Is anyone on here a narcissist or has any experience dealing with them. I’ve been called a narcissist and deep down inside I know that I’m a classic narcissist. Please respond! 
thanks!
Also if I am a narcissist then what should I do!! I’m well aware that people cannot diagnose people over the internet btw
Everything is about me with regards to my behavior and thoughts and appearance. I do have empathy! Does empathy disqualify me from being a narcissist?
I’d rather have f ame than fortune or power! O yes and I’m back too I understand that a lot of folks on a public Internet forum here dislike me but I’m seeking answers and like honestly I try to be a class act in real life take it easy please!
This forum is generally a good platform for narcissists.
‘I’ start so many of ‘my’ posts with ‘I/we/etc’.
I try to be more aware of it. I’m also noticing when around other people I’m poor at listening
But ‘I’m’ making efforts
I don’t listen to anyone I say we all the time more than I
My best friend is a histrionic narcissist. He’s very open and accepting, generous, easy to be around, lots of fun.
There are four types of narcissistic diagnosis, and each is very different. What unites them is that they seek “narcissistic supply”.
That is where the hate comes from I think, because when narcissistic parents use their children as a source of supply… It can be very damaging to a child.
I am very charismatic in person tbh I could debate the president of my country and I wouldn’t be off a lot of folks adore me but a lot of people think I’m an arrogant ■■■■■■■ especially when I’m drunk! I do nice things for people but I’m actually fairly domineering at times although extremely submissive in bed
Yea histrionic narcissist for some reason hits the mark. A lot of people would tell you that I’m one of the sweetest coolest guys ever. But that just enables me to get compliments. I don’t have kids or spouse but if I did I would shower them with love and attention and a lot of people think I am very very funny and fun. It’s hard to tell on the internet. I don’t hate anyone here not at all not even close
I got a giant ego a giant personality and a giant heart. I’m very honest too I have probably told about 10 lies in my life only and that’s mostly as a kid becuase everybody knows kids lie to fit in.
Narcissist is also a medical diagnosis. It’s not an opinion
I absolutely love when people talk about me like it’s like yea even if they’re talking smack like yea there’s a reason there doing that it makes me feel special
Yes, I agree. Like I said there are four diagnosis:
NPD, BPD, HPD, ASPD.
But narcissism is also a trait that everyone can have, without a diagnosis. It is part of ‘the dark triad’: “Narcissism, Psychopathy, and Machiavellianism”.
I wet the bed till I was 17 speaking of psychopath triad but I don’t like to inflict pain but I don’t mind humiliating people. I also can sense weakness I’m extremely talented at figuring people out like some psychology stuff I never even took a class on the subject
I’m not dangerous though like I said at all I’m very kind but if I’m stressed I can get very angry until the stress stops
That’s not my understanding of narcissism
Another question is knowing that information would any women or man consider me boyfriend material honestly. I’ve dated for a few months but I think women always realized I was charming and seemed like the greatest guy at first but thought no way after a few weeks or months. I had a boyfriend but I wasn’t nice to him and acted like a primadonna jerk to him tbh
Is there a relationship out there for me is there hope??? Women and gay men like me but for whatever reason I have I have not asked them out I never had a girlfriend although I’m fairly nice looking
Well I’m not a doctor or a psychologist so I could be wrong.
I learned about it from Jordan Peterson & Sam Vaknin.
Being self-obsessed doesn’t make you a narcissist.
But you’re definitely very self-obsessed.