Ok I need to think about moving now

As you know my mum built a garage for my bro to play pool in. So my brother is in there right now. Probably drinking. Brings strangers over. I feel incredibly uncomfortable. I said to my mum maybe he can live here and I can live where he does. So I can avoid them. She said don’t start a fight with him. I cannot say a thing. I’m going to talk to my partner. And need to have a serious discussion. Maybe it’s time. Regardless of whether I lose benefits or not.

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Remove “think”

at some point just have to do it. but its very easy to just be stuck.

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I really worry about my mum but I have my own life to live.

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you do. you only have one life.

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If its all doing your bloody nut in (which im guessing it is, or you would not be posting) - just maintain a respectful emotional distance.

Some issues you just have got to accept you cant win.

Do Your Thing. Look after Number One.

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wow, I’m so sorry…that’s rough…surely your mum will work with you?

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