Constantly cringing and feeling like I’m saying the wrong thing lol
In a healthy relationship sex is an added bonus. If it’s there and good that’s great. But if not you still love each other and want to be together. I think your putting to much emphasis on sex.
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Nerves? From what it sounds like is that it’s a casual relationship that one or both sides want to escalate from their comfort zone. Maybe that’s what you’re afraid of?
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is it because you have pcos which i understand to be a disrder where male hormones are higher in a female?
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No. He’s so intelligent and sounds smart that I’m not able to live up to that and sound extremely stupid and end up saying mean things 
when I’m trying to be smart
Huh. So you think you are intimidated by his intelligence?
I am not “ jealous “ it really is a good thing or should I say turn on. But I do fear it will be s turn off if I constantly say stupid things.
Seriously, if he thinks less of you over something like that, it is a problem with him not you. Besides, he clearly seems interested enough to keep up the conversation. So maybe you are overthinking it.
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I’ll just drop it and text how I feel and be me.
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Sounds pretty normal. I’d imagine most modern women go through such things! I tend to think your doing allright with things. I’m sure it’ll go well…it’s easy to build up hopes etc but it’s ok to be a little realistic about things. It’s a complicated world!
Hey, Don’t feel pressured if a smarter guy wants to go out with you, Ish. Everyone has qualities and shortcomings. You have some, he has some, although they might not overlap. You have a huge talent for drawing, also you are cute and funny. He is smart, but probably he has some weak side too. All that matters is that you two get along well, and there’s chemistry between you. Give the guy a chance !!
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ish, I have read some fascinating articles lately about gender neutrality. It means someone identifies as neither male nor female. It is unrelated to your birth gender or sexuality rather how you see yourself in a wider context of personal identification. Just as a person can be bi-cultural. Below is a couple of photos I took of the jargon box of words from the article.
You are amazing and the epitome of femininity. Have you looked in the mirror today? You’ll be surprised!
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You believe a man that would want or love you could only be a gold digger? I feel the same way a little bit. I trust no one.
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I don’t even see myself as a person it’s really just an odd feeling.
Interesting if its a sz related. There was a time i also didnt know if i was a man or a woman in my brain. But i decided i was a woman cause i really like men. 
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Could you be gender fluid? That means you can also identify as non human!
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Dog or cat?
I still see you as a person though even if you’re a man, woman, or a fuzzy little animal 
Perhaps. But it’s only when I’m feeling down.